...would you be offended?


This is a theoretic question, so try not to swing around the question. If you found your soulmate - looks, intelligence, whatever they may be... and your soulmate was going to inherit millions of dollars from their parents, and your soulmate wanted you to sign a prenup (to ensure you do not obtain a dime of it if anything happens with your marriage), would you feel offended?

And let's switch the question around: if you were the one that was going to inherit the millions of dollars, would you ask your soulmate to sign a prenup? Or do you think the love and trust that you have with them that you do not need to?

Examples of the most recent celebs divorce with no prenups and the aftermath:


Kobe Bryant and Vanessa - January 01, 2012 [s]

• $75 million dollars
• snagged all three mansions that they shared together.

Mel Gibson and Robyn - December 23, 2011 [s]

• $425 million dollars (also the biggest divorce payout in Hollywood history)
• Entitled to half of every future check Gibson receives for the rest of his life.
• Two Malibu homes worth a combined $22.5 million

I'd be happy. In fact, I'll most likely be the one demanding one.

No it's just common sense.

No.

Nope.

I think I'd be discouraged (because if I'm marrying someone, I'd expect it to be lifelong), but I'd understand the need for financial security.

Hell, if I get married it'll probably be because I trust the guy enough to want to share marriage benefits with him.

If that person earns more money than I do, Yes.

No I wouldn't be offended it doesn't matter if I'm the one who earns more money or not. Just because you sign a prenup doesn't mean you don't want to share you entire life with your husband or wife. It's just you never know what will happen.

Prenup is a must! Sorry, but is true.
But ofc, if that person is rich, then... no need for prenup.

No and Yes. I wouldn't be offended because I'd be looking for a pre-nup as well. I think it's being responsible

Yes. Losing everything I earned thoughout years of work by someone else is just something I couldn't accept.

If I found my soulmate, I'm sure that person would do exactly the same.

Yes. It means he is already thinking about our divorce. I think a marriage should last a lifetime.

But I know it is a necessity and I'll probably sign it.

No, if their richer.

No I would not be offended.

I would want one if I lived in the states, but it's not like that here.
I mean sure you can transfer money from eachothers accounts whenever you want. but if a divorce is happening, you should'nt get more than what you've earned.

There are some places where you have to ask for the opposite, the prenup is already settled in civil marriages.

That would make things easier and more romantic.

No, I wouldn't be offended and yes I'd ask for the same thing. You don't know what could happen.

+1

I'll make sure that the person I'm going to marry will be richer than I am.

Fixed.