In a relationship, would your partners sexual history ever bother you if they had been with a lot of people? Basically if they had been a slag.

Could you be okay with it if you was a virgin and they wasn't?

Would it only bother you if it was all one night stands? Or would it still bother you even if it was all in serious relationships?

Discuss

*Inspiration of the thread came from a talk I had with a friend*

Honestly, the more the better.

I need to make sure he's had practice and knows how to lay the dick down right.

I prefer more experienced men.

Considering I was a ****..... I could care-less if they've banged 100+ men, or still haven't broken their cherry yet.

Well the one and only time I've had sex so far was with another kid my age and we were both virgins. Needless to say it was beyond awkward and the whole time I was thinking to myself *please dont let this ***** run out the room crying that hes straight*.

1. Yes, I don't sleep with *****s.
2. Yes
3. Yes

I agree with you most so far although experience isn't a bad thing, It just needs not to be to the extent of were you can't walk around the corner without seeing someone they've shagged

Yes... but only if they've been with a couple people. I may be alone but I'm here for virgins. I can't get down with guys that have been known to be *****s/guys that have slept with lots of girls. I'm just not comfortable with that. Also, I could never have sex with someone if we weren't committed, I know people say that's a big risk, because obviously they're not experienced, but that's just me.


Question (because I'm curious): Do y'all make sure to get your partner tested before having sex with them or do you trust them/take the risk? Also, how would you feel if your sex partner asked you to get tested before they'd be willing to have sex with you? Would you be okay with that or be offended/move on? Am I the only one who thinks this way or......

I agree with you. You're not alone.

And to answer your question, I've trusted one person in the past without asking and I'm not dying of an STD now so I'm okay but I do think I wouldn't take that risk again and I'd ask if they had been tested with future partners. I'd be okay with them asking me, it's all about safety at the end of the day.

I'm a bottom and have been with un-experienced men. I need me a man who knows what F%$k he is doing.

Yeah same. I'd rather be safe than sorry && I don't think a person should have a problem with it unless they're hiding something . Maybe i'm a bit paranoid when it comes to things like that, but I feel like I would beat myself up && regret it if we(my partner & I) didn't get tested && I ended up dealing with a STD or something.

Exactly!
Yes I would too, you know you can have sex without worry if you just have a simple test, so it's worth doing for that mind of ease and for yours and your partners safety.

I don't really care about how many partners a person has had in the past, as long as they don't have any STDs and we connect on some deeper level. Personally, though, I'd rather be with somebody less experienced than somebody who has had dozens of partners. Would it make or break a crush/relationship, though? Of course not.

I thought that said "parents"



Anyways, it wouldn't bother me if they had a lot of sex in other relationships. If they were one night stands it'd probably bother me a bit (even though I've had my share of one-night stands ), but I think I could get over it. Plus, just think about how good he'd be in bed with all that experience. Just gotta make sure he doesn't have a history of cheating.