When you're a girl, nothing is worse when it comes to arguing than arguing with men. Even after the fight they seem to have no emotion regarding it. It hurts.
Yeah my best friend and I are on and off friends because we always fight. She remembers every little thing I call her (well, because they're horrible names i.e fat ugly bitch, etc ) and sometimes I don't even remember calling her those names. Moral of the story: don't try to go against a guy because we show no emotion and forget?
Really? I think I used to be angry about it at first, too, but after I let myself cool down a bit I was just embarrassed. It's difficult to be in a family where you're the only one with a temper.
It used to make me so angry and frustrated that I would just have to cry it out. It was horrible. But it almost never happens anymore (I can't remember the last time I had an outburst at home) so I am pretty good now.
No. I'm not a temperamental person at all. I do my best to avoid any type of confrontation.
Before it even gets to the point fo me yelling or being stressed out, I evaluate the situation, lower my voice and try to talk things over with the other person.
I've never been one to have an outburst or go off. IMHO, People who do go off the deep end when they get upset have SERIOUS problems.
Yeah my best friend and I are on and off friends because we always fight. She remembers every little thing I call her (well, because they're horrible names i.e fat ugly bitch, etc ) and sometimes I don't even remember calling her those names. Moral of the story: don't try to go against a guy because we show no emotion and forget?
Basically. There have been so many times where I've fought with men, and after a fight where I've cooled down and been crying, they still show no mercy.
I think my temper has led to my tendency to over-apologize.
No. I'm not a temperamental person at all. I do my best to avoid any type of confrontation.
Before it even gets to the point fo me yelling or being stressed out, I evaluate the situation, lower my voice and try to talk things over with the other person.
I've never been one to have an outburst or go off. IMHO, People who do go off the deep end when they get upset have SERIOUS problems.
I'm so jealous. After I have a fight with someone, I ALWAYS tell myself that I'll at least attempt to do what you stated in the bold the next time. I never do.
Basically. There have been so many times where I've fought with men, and after a fight where I've cooled down and been crying, they still show no mercy.
I think my temper has led to my tendency to over-apologize.
Oh, and never fight with a gay boy too. They will shred you to pieces.
When I verbally fight I try to find everything about you and put you down - weight, clothing, skin, your wealth, looks. You name it, I do it. I'm not a bad person though. I do it only if I get pissed. I guess you could say I'm like Laurel from The Challenge, but if they were to film me, I would make Laurel look like a Disney movie.
I rarely lose my temper but sometimes I just lose myself...
One time this teacher (she's 40~ish, single and around 5'1'') was so bitchy around me and my friends that I called her a "Sahara-dried *****, postmenopausal ****y midget"...
Thank God she didn't hear it. It was completely off character for me to say it
I have very strong outbursts, to be quite honest. Not the throwing things kind of person, but I feel like it sometimes. I tend to say really hurtful things to people I love, and then I regret it and I have to apologize, and I don't seem to be able to control it.
I feel like seeking professional help about it. I don't think it is normal.