Discussion: Could you date someone who's never planning to come out? - Page 4

Win

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Originally posted by featheralley

Pretty much me here, and the reason why I said I would never come out. Like I said before, there are people who are hard core religious, in some countries you could receive the death penalty for being gay, but for my situation, I have the old fashion family and my parents has said it loud and clear before that if I was gay to "get out of the house" because there's "no gays in the family".

They knew it sis.

Feather

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Originally posted by ****y On Venus

I just can't imagine having to say goodbye to your family. I mean...I don't like most of my ratchet ass family members but still...

I would for my soul mate.

I think many people would too (leave their family for their partners), not just in gay relationships but even in straight relationships.

iLays

I dated someone who wasn't out in High School. It was kool. I don't know why yawl trippin and complainin about it. It ain't like yawl scary asses gon try to suck his dick in public

Ramcoro

Eh I'm in high school right now, so it's not like I am looking for my "life partner". I don't really care if they don't want to come out. When I get older, and when I am looking for a serious relationship, then I would not date someone who plans to stay in the closet.

freebitch26

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Originally posted by skyler_

you are definitely right. I had to get out the relationship fast. it was too much to handle especially going out in public

wait your gay and you went out with a lesbian or did i get it all wrong

Angelo

It's cool I guess it's like beyonce and Jay-z
no pda or anything

MonsterMosama

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Originally posted by JonnyϟLightning

I dated a guy while I was closeted and the tea was spilled so I denied that i went out with him and the poor kid no one believed him not even his friends. Everyone called him a liar and stuff.

I remember in highschool the same thing happened to one of my friends- a closeted gay guy led them on and then when they were about to make it more obvious the kid got scared and told everyone the gay kid was a stalker.

Thats why the answer to this thread in most cases should be 'NO'.
If you ever get caught or if anyone gets any idea or clue they will drop your ass and never talk to you again to make sure no one thinks theyre gay. Sad pathetic world

Venus

Already did sis. It was some **** **** though. Bitch acted like he was straight when he was with me and I was like so why we ****in around then?

Reza

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Originally posted by ****y On Venus

But it makes for INCREDIBLE sex, when you both finally get alone and you get to release all that suppressed passion that has been eating you up inside.

yes sis, i know...

arkl

I could live with that. I'm probably guilty of this.

Vithor

No. I've never had a boyfriend because that's serious thing for me. We just have to love each other, want the same things and be on the same page, otherwise that won't work, so it's not even worthy. The closeted/denial guys would be useful only for strictly sexual relationship, no more than that. Don't have time for that kinda drama anymore. I've passed that phase a LOOOOONG time ago.

Thisisit

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Originally posted by KoreanDream

I know I'm not homosexual, but I think if I were it would depend on the situation. Some people have absolutely no relationship with their family and/or don't feel the need to make their personal life known, so that could all factor into them not ever wanting to come out of the closet.

I feel this way. I have a great relationship with my family, but I have no desire to let them know who I'm going out with. I've had girlfriends before and not told my family, why would it be any different if I got a boyfriend?

Thisisit

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Originally posted by winroute

+1

But I prefer white over black

I understand for sexual partners, but are you saying you prefer white friends over black friends?