But you've met some gay friends in your real life right?

Exactly!

I would ONLY be hookup buddies, and maybe a little down the road, if I convince them to come out, maybe it'll work

Forgot to mention this on my last post, another reason why I wouldn't want to date someone who's already out/openly gay.

This same guy cuddled me in a public park by the way guys. It was awesome.

Gay people? Of course, gay friends? Nope. The only gay friends I have are my online friends, if that counts. I have no real life gay friends. I don't even have mutual friends that are (openly) gay.

You're a *****!

i did once and ill never forget one time when i saw him in public and i wanted to hug and kiss him so bad but we just shook hands instead. i felt sooo bad.

Really? I've met some, thanks to the internet.

Same here

NOOOOOOOOO

Outing someone who's not ready... I don't get why anyone would want to do that. I mean, all of you guys came out at one point and were not ready so you understand what they're going through, so if this person is not planning to come out, why would you guys out him? (even if it's a joke/threatening him/etc). It's a scary thing.

Imagine finding your soulmate, you get upset that he's never planning to come out, and you out him to his parents, and you find out it's illegal in his culture (Arabia, Iran, etc) to be gay and he could receive the death penalty, then you would feel like ****. (Not attacking anyone btw)

Sorry, but I do not choose to be friends with people according to their sexuality. I have classmates that are gay, co-workers that are gay, but am I friends with them? No.

Hell the mutha****in no, my best friend's first love was a closet case and let me tell you I do KNOT need that kinda pain in my life.