So i sometimes joke with my friends about getting raped, dominated, etc and sometimes tell the guy im having sex with that i want him to rape me or something like that but whenever people talk about rape victims its like its such a trauma and so terrible


Is rape really that traumatic? how does it feel? how different is the trauma between getting raped and getting beat up, stabbed, etc?


Btw im talking male gay rape so no pregnancy and imagine the rapist rapes does it with condom

How on earth could it not be traumatic, gay or straight?

Someone is forcibly entering you when you don't want them to!!

A mess.

If you tell a guy that you want him to rape you, it's not rape. You want it. That just means you want to be submissive and you gave him your consent.

how old are you? seriously.

lol but its just a joke i dont actually mean it

thats why i asked whats the difference between rape and getting beat up or something like that? how different is the psychological ''damage'' ?

Are you freaking serious with this ****?

Are you ****ing serious?

PERMABAN!

you're joking

Whats wrong with asking how different is the trauma?

So then why did you mention it? It's not actually rape.

It's obviously traumatic to get beaten up too. I don't have experience in either area so I can't compare.

You need to be banned. This is ridiculous.

THIS PLEASE.

Why?

Im serious, whats wrong with asking how different is the trauma between getting raped and getting beat up, stabbed, etc?


There is nothing wrong with this question.

a) The person can be violent and it may hurt
b) The horrific memory is with you for life
c) Many feel weak being the victim of rape, it can be demoralising

Silly thread.

I can't