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Ok, well, I don't think I can make this a short story... but I will try.

I became friends with this girl online, we gave each other our numbers and talked on the phone. I started to like her, as in really like her, and she liked me, too.

We never went out though, because I wanted to wait until I met her in real life... an online relationship is not something I desire.

Then over a few months she stopped going online less and less. One day she came on, and in general discussion I asked her if she still liked me, and the answer was "there are still some feelings there for you".

Turns out that over these months, she had been falling in love with some other girl. Even though she had some feelings with me, most of her heart belonged to this chick. Things between us were never the same... I was just too crushed to actually have a proper discussion with her again. (I didn't realise how much I actually liked her)

Then all we did was fight as she tried to make things up to me and I just shut her out of my life. I know its not her fault she fell for someone else, but I had to move on.

The other day I deleted her number, defriended her on facebook, and deleted her off msn. I don't have any contact with her now, and I feel good about it. In the back of my mind though I wonder if I have done the right thing.


Sorry for the long story, this is as short as I could make it without leaving out important details.

Originally posted by JungleDisturbia Ok, well, I don't think I can make this a short story... but I will try.

Originally posted by JungleDisturbia I became friends with this girl online, we gave each other our numbers and talked on the phone. I started to like her, as in really like her, and she liked me, too. We never went out though, because I wanted to wait until I met her in real life... an online relationship is not something I desire. Then over a few months she stopped going online less and less. One day she came on, and in general discussion I asked her if she still liked me, and the answer was "there are still some feelings there for you". Turns out that over these months, she had been falling in love with some other girl. Even though she had some feelings with me, most of her heart belonged to this chick. Things between us were never the same... I was just too crushed to actually have a proper discussion with her again. (I didn't realise how much I actually liked her) Then all we did was fight as she tried to make things up to me and I just shut her out of my life. I know its not her fault she fell for someone else, but I had to move on. The other day I deleted her number, defriended her on facebook, and deleted her off msn. I don't have any contact with her now, and I feel good about it. In the back of my mind though I wonder if I have done the right thing. Sorry for the long story, this is as short as I could make it without leaving out important details.

Originally posted by Entity .

Originally posted by Grin Toll Thanks for the spoiler with your avatar

Originally posted by Grin Toll Thanks for the spoiler with your avatar

Yeah, I'm a guy.

Thankyou! Well I hope you feel better about your ex soon.

I know I will meet someone better in real life, haha. Just gotta wait for the right person...