In today's world it's only really easy to guess the fem ****. There are so many "normal", bro-saying and football-playing gay guys (whether out or closeted) stereotypes just don't cut it anymore. If you
really want to spot a gay you have to pay close attention to what sets them apart from the straights: women.
Sometimes they never talk about women. Other times they talk about women almost too much but can never seem to get or keep a girlfriend. Still others are perpetual virgins who may or may not be keeping their purity "for God" (Madonna/***** Complexes don't exist, people!). All of these are the biggest red flags, IMO. There are always exceptions of course but paying attention to these signs have vastly improved my gaydar.
I do the same thing and I end up getting my self hurt.
I tend to forget that just because there being very nice doesn't mean they are gay.
. He is a cop 
. I started teasing him at the dinner cause he is so hot altho he is like 50 years old, i've found my sugar daddy 
