What does ATRL think of one night stands? Have you done it? WOULD you do it? If so, what would a guy/girl need to say/do for you to give up the drawls on a first date?

Let's discuss.

I don't need a date for sex

Yes I did it twice, and trust me, there is nothing wrong with that.

I've had one night stands before but only when I'm not interested in having a relationship. When I want to be in a relationship I don't have sex for awhile.

I'f I'm offered S&M.

It's not for me. I have to trust the person.

Knock on my door looking like this

Done it before.


It's ok if you go into it with the mindset that you just want to get some.

Don't ask that here. There isn't a single prude, they're all ****s. Give them chocolate pudding and a nice dick and they'll give in.

I never did it and I will never do it. I'm kinda of a slowpoke in relationships. I usually don't kiss at the first date too. It takes at least 1-2 weeks.

Even if I'm really interested in the guy that I just met, I still need at least 2-3 weeks to set my mind. Too many times, I was interested in a guy during the first date, but then after 2-3 weeks, I just had to admit that we weren't able to make a connection and it wasn't working. So, the relation ended at that time. I would probably have regretted it if I had slept with them already.

Also, I need to be comfortable to have sex with a guy. I can't do it with a guy that I just met that I don't even trust. I don't like pure physical sex, I prefer to make love to someone I feel a connection with.

I like both. But sex is a lot better when you like/love the person you're having sex with.

That is very true.

If it's Paul Walker.

Darling, you need to learn that there is one life.

Orioles

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If you like to do it fast, it's fine. I guess it's because I've been in bad relationships in the past and now I'm more conservative and slow to give my trust to someone.

And one body to keep STD free. It's good to wait unless you just want a one night stand.

I kissed/dance/made out hardcore with a guy I just met in a club before and I felt so dirty the day after. The feeling was horrible, I didn't like it at all - and we didn't even have sex. Imagine if we would