Discussion: Have You Ever Been In Love & Heartbroken? - Page 4

Harry

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Originally posted by Da beezness!

I see homeboy is getting underground huh?

We can't blame him

Kh-Loud

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Originally posted by Last Boy on Earth

I was in love with my straight friend for like a year and I always had the hope he'd feel something for me, I mean he was always touching me and looked like he was flirting, me being the dumbass I am really had hope even knowing he had tons of girls and was obsessed with Football, we were like brothers, always together and all, he made me happy. Suddenly, one day he tells me he's going to move to Canada, I didn't believe till the day he really went, I don't think I've cried so much ever, I almost died of dehydration when I was saying goodbye to him, I had a depression for weeks and I've never been the same since that time, I haven't really cried since then and it was like 2 years ago I am now heartless and don't believe in no ****ery of a love

deadd you shoulda at least told him how you felt bout him before he left! It woulda probably made you feel a hella betta!

KarlosVzla

How do you know if you're in loved?

Regina George

Yes

Jewfro

Nope

ManDown

I've never been in love, but I have had my heartbroken several times. I don't believe that you have to be fully in love in order to have your heartbroken. My problem is that I'm so stupid and reckless in relationships. I'm always overlooking the person's flaws and negative traits, and think that I can somehow change them or they can change me. It's a really stupid mentality, I know. But I end up liking a person so much that anything negative or bad on their part doesn't bother me. And I never listen to my friends when they tell me that the person is bad for me.

I'm going through some heartbreak right now over this guy that I was "seeing" for several months, but I knew from the start that it would most likely never work out since he had a boyfriend. He always made me feel so good, though. I felt more comfortable with him than any guy I've ever actually dated. Girls, don't EVER get sucked into the whole "friends with benefits" thing. IT NEVER WORKS. One person ALWAYS develops feelings for the other, and the other person rarely feels the same way. Never be somebody's thing on the side either.

ManDown

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Originally posted by Last Boy on Earth

I was in love with my straight friend for like a year and I always had the hope he'd feel something for me, I mean he was always touching me and looked like he was flirting, me being the dumbass I am really had hope even knowing he had tons of girls and was obsessed with Football, we were like brothers, always together and all, he made me happy. Suddenly, one day he tells me he's going to move to Canada, I didn't believe till the day he really went, I don't think I've cried so much ever, I almost died of dehydration when I was saying goodbye to him, I had a depression for weeks and I've never been the same since that time, I haven't really cried since then and it was like 2 years ago I am now heartless and don't believe in no ****ery of a love

I'm so sorry, sis. I think that it's really easy to fall for a straight friend because you mistake their friendship for something more. I know that because I went through that a couple of years ago. It never ends well.

I hope that you will be able to love again someday, though. You're a very sweet guy and you deserve someone amazing.

iamvladd

Was in love once, I was like obsessed with this girl for like 3 years. She liked me back but not like that, I don't know whats wrong with her though, "we could of had it all" like a perfect relationship. When ever we hanged out, it was like a match made in heaven I swear. I even tried the whole "being her friend first thing" and even that ain't work. Bitch ain't love me back so I stopped the pursuit and said **** IT. I ain't looking for it no time soon though. It hurts as hell seeing her with her boyfriend, I be wishing it was me. Songs like Marvin Room (“**** that ***** that you love so bad, I know you still think about the times we had; I’m just sayin’, you could do better"), & I Can't Make You love Me touch my heart cause of her. In the end I'm a bit happy cause I heard she turned into a hoe and ****ed like 5 of my boys.