Yes and it sucks a lot.

And I also cut off contact with an ex who liked to come in and out of my life and cause me a lot of confusion. So, I guess I've been on both sides.

First he isnt 19, he is over over 30 so yes i guess that makes things even worse, and yes after he started ignoring me I contacted him with a fake persona to have a hookup with him and he was expecting another guy and i showed up, He was really shocked but he wasnt angry, he took me to his apartment and he was really shocked and told me it was nice seeing me again and that i should be a spy or work for the cia (i really killed it, what i did looked like a spy movie), he asked me my age a lot, he even asked me to show him my passport(im from another country) I told him i was 16 almost 17, we spent like 5 hours talking about why he was ignoring me and all that
I also told him i was seeing another guys too so my age wasnt such a big deal and he told me to plz be careful because there is dangerous people out there, we also had some fun and i slept with him, anyways after i left he texted me two times, one telling me to be safe on my way home and some time later i texted him and asked him what he though he told me he was still shocked and he never texted me back after that

I also forgot my sunglasses at his place and he never returned them
and yes i know im a bit crazy

This is how I deal with problems with guys/people in general. I hate confrontation.

Yeah, well im usually the one to do it cuz i tell them i dont think it can work but they still want to give it a shot and by this time im over it and like watever if i dont text u you will know why. As a matter of fact im doing to this guy as we speak He lives 5 hours from me and thinks we have a chance at a damnn relationship. We started jus as email friends but i guess he got feeling from me over the tex and now he wont stop texting me. I been avoding him for 2 weeks now and he still replies with "Hey Sexy" with every tex

I find it so hard to completely cut all contact from someone you've been so close to. When I broke up with my boyfriend it was so hard to not text him because we'd spoken basically every day when we were together. It was obviously hard for him too because he'd sometimes send me random texts but try to make it look like he was just being a friend. We still sometimes talk, and the other day we met up . I know I should completely cut him out but he still wants to be friends. I don't know where I stand.

When guys are really forward it puts me off so much. It shouldn't, but it does. I like dickheads.

If you're 17, and he's over 30, then he did it to not seem like a pedo.

easy as that.

Yep. It sucks and is confusing.

He wanted that young boy ***** and now that he got, you're no use for him.

The first guy I ever got involved with did it to me. Without going into detail let's just say that to this day I totally despise him for being an absolute coward and hurting me so much. He basically just stopped talking to me one day for no reason. Except he later come back one or two times when he wanted to have sex with me, and I was too inexperienced at the time to call him out for his ********. I guess he taught me a valuable lesson about relationships but I still think he is the worst person I know.

LET HIM GOOO!! Its gona be hard but both of yall need to end this cuz its not healthy. I think yall should atleast met one my time and have a long talk about what is the best for both of yall and if yall decide to go seperate ways then delete him out of Yo life for good and i mean do it as soon as possible cuz it will get messy if either one of u get a boyfriend.

Yeah. You have to cut all contact from him to heal yourself. I've been doing this with my ex for like several months and even though we were only texting from times to times, it was enough to still block me from healing completely. I found myself still thinking about him. What happenned? Well, I cut contact from him months after we broke up for like a year. So, I think it's something that is bound to happen, rather do it sooner than later. Then, we started to talk back a year later but I'm healed now so I'm all good. But, I needed that time without ANYTHING from him. It would help you fur sure.

C for me if a guy keeps hittin me up when he clearly c i havent text him back in the past two weeks i start to c some of them as a whiny hoe who needs some sex to keep em quite. So with some guys I have actually texted them back saying I was sorry i didnt respond back I had phone problems and then tell them i want them back hoping that they will give me some sex and while doing so once i get my nut I will leave and never ever tex or talk to them again

does that make me a bad person

meeting someone over the internet = never a good idea.

I meet my bestfriend there

I jus cut another person off

Yes but I'm happy it happened. He was a tragic closet case who thought he could have it both ways and use anyone who was stupid enough to get to know him. I hope he's happy with is 200lb girl friend and the new brat that looks like a cabbage patch doll.