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Discussion: Most hurtful thing anybody's ever said to you in real life?
Member Since: 8/22/2009
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Originally posted by Sahn
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Old hag teachers confusing me with a girl more than 1 time and 20 people laughing at that.  |
I wish someone would confuse me with a girl. 
But I forgot how beautiful you are. 
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Member Since: 11/11/2010
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Originally posted by Chemist
Lol I haven't had a heart-break story
They used to call me from time to time *** but it was because I was more of a shy kid. I wasn't very popular in school because I had a very low self esteem.
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I'm sorry, sis. 
I had low self esteem in school, too. But I became good at faking it. I almost created an alter-ego for school. I would make people think that I was a strong, brave, carefree person that didn't have any problems or pain. 
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
I hate Christians like that. I'm a Christian myself but NOWHERE in the Bible does it say that it is wrong to be gay. Misguided people are just...  |
Me too! And I agree. It is ironic that my father, a convicted felon, claims to be a religious person, when it is convenient for him. When he isn't in prison, he never goes to church. Plus, he's a drug addict. There isn't very much holy about that. 
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Member Since: 11/5/2009
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Originally posted by Attitude
In my freshman year at high school, me and my friend were walking to class. All of a sudden a jock who used to be my old classmate comes up to us. He tells my friend to stop hanging out with me because I was gay. I was embarrassed, but that whole rest of the day my friend didn't speak to me or acknowledge that I was even in his presence. Later that night he texts me saying he no longer wants to be my friend because I was ruining his reputation. I haven't spoken to him ever since and now he hangs out with the jock and look at me with dirty looks.
There's also this one time when my little brother called 911 and a bunch of policeman showed up. Well anyways my mom who can't speak english correctly calls me down to talk to them. I had no idea what was going on and I go downstairs. One of the policemen starts to ask me questions and I answer them. He asks why I called 911 and I kept telling them it was my little brother. Then they started to leave and the police man looked at me and said, "A real man would tell the truth and not blame others, especially a 6 year old kid". He left and then i just ran to my room and started to cry. |
That first story 
The second part... The police man? Wtf really? 
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Originally posted by satellites™
I wish someone would confuse me with a girl. |
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Member Since: 11/7/2010
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Ya'll are making me tear up  I have another one I would like to share:
This was last year, freshman year. My friend was being picked on by this teacher constantly for not doing good on his grades, & he told me how bad his father was treating him, telling he won't ever get anywhere, dumb-ass, good for nothing bitch, & I was in tears when he told me this. I thought he had a good life, & he just told me everything. His mother died, his father abused, & many other things I'd rather not discuss. But he told me what his father would tell him when he would bring home bad grades, & he wasn't that smart, but he tried his hardest & I felt so bad. The day day after, he had a breakdown when he had just missed passing by 1 point & the teacher told him to grow up & stop crying, I literally started screaming at the teacher & then after I had gone off, I sat down in my seat & it was really quiet, he gave us our homework & we started it early, & I din't get in trouble.
It was one of the best moment of my Freshman year, knowing I stood up for someone & didn't get in trouble 
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Member Since: 7/21/2007
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Originally posted by Aussiefan01
Would have been grade7- 8
I dated this girl , we were both 11. She wanted to move very fast land im not talking holding hands!! And here I is more into pokemon cards and sports then girls. So I dumped her and for 6 mmonths her entire crew teased me every day of my life they were in nearly all my classes.. They were all girls , so it wasnt as if i could fight them , I was always a popular student but no one wanted to stand up to these girls because they were preety hood! Not going to lie! To this day i still have scars from what they did. Then it just stopped one day.
But wanna know what makes me smile now? Silly hoes all dropped out of school in grade 9 , pregnant , I see them every thursday waiting for the welfare office to open to stand in line for thier checks, after a hard week of contributing to society by fighting with thier baby daddies and getting caught with weed
I win!
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Wow, that's that Karma. 
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Member Since: 7/13/2010
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Originally posted by Sahn
You didn't!
Gay people overreact to this kind of situations, very paranoids. With time he'll realize how stupid this things are... and who knows, maybe he'll come back.
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I agree, when my homophobic friend found out about my sexual orientation he spread it to everyone and seemed like he was trying to purposfully destroy my life. It was right before my midterm exams and I got depressed for two weeks and would ignore everyone, sit in my room and cry. Anyway, to make a long story short I forgave the guy after he apologized to me and I will never forget the conversation of the apology we had
Me: I just wanted to come out on my own and to a few people at a time. I dont expect everyone to be comfortable with it seeing as I am still really uncomfortable with it and kind of weirded out with it too
My friend: Theres nothing to be uncomfortable about. You shouldnt feel that way at all and as your friend I shouldnt make you feel that way either.
Sometimes pain makes you and others stronger
-My friend isnt homophobic anymore
-I got A's on all my midterms(and the highest grade on both my chem and U.S. government midterm)
-Im able to tell my friends openly about my life and not feel like im hiding things from them.
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Member Since: 3/20/2011
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Originally posted by featheralley
That first story
The second part... The police man? Wtf really? |
Yes. I guess he was in a really bad mood that day.
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Originally posted by ManDown
Me too! And I agree. It is ironic that my father, a convicted felon, claims to be a religious person, when it is convenient for him. When he isn't in prison, he never goes to church. Plus, he's a drug addict. There isn't very much holy about that. |
I LOVE people like that. The ones that use certain qualities to their convenience. People that aren't religious pretending to be when it helps them or the situation they're in, people that aren't nice pretending to be when it helps them or the situation they're in...it's just so hilarious. But they're beyond help when they do things like that, so it's not like I care.
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I've been through things that have been said in this thread like being called "******", being bullied, and judged on so I won't go into detail.
But I am going to say that I do not regret being bullied on or wish it never happened. Because they made me into the strong person that I am today. If some hater called me a "******" to my face (which I doubt they would have enough guts to actually do it) I would go IN on them and make them pray for mercy. Ain't no one gonna pull that **** with me. 
I hope you all feel the same powerful way. 
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
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Originally posted by RyanC
Been there...though that didn't make me hurtful it made me want to kill him.
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You were abused?
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Member Since: 10/9/2008
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I dated this guy 2 summers ago. It was basically a "2 weeks relationship" (went dinner together, beach, clubbing, etc etc etc), we got along really well and i was really into it. On his last night in the city (he was here for vacation ) we went to a club, i was with my friends, he was with his but we met up anyway. At one moment my friend said to me "Is that your boy?" and he was kissing this other guy. But when i mean "kissing" i'm talking about FRENCH kissing, they were really horny. It was a shock, i couldn't believe it. I grab my friend and we went home... and cried and cried and cried.
Since then i had problems to relate with guys. I couldn't trust anybody.
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Member Since: 11/5/2009
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Originally posted by Hausofmonster
.. Thank lord i don't live with my dad. The only contact i have with him is when he gives my sister and I money, which requires visiting him. But I know he would disown me within a second. All he ever wants to know is whether i have a girlfriend, yet. (preferably a mexican women who knows how to cook and have babies  )
.. But the only main concern i have is my mother. :-\ .. She takes religion seriously.
.. Sometimes i just randomly cry at night, sobbing to the power above to let me be 'straight'.
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Yes same here I wonder sometimes if I will marry a girl when I'm older. If my dad found out I was gay right now, he would kick me out right now at 2:11 AM.
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Originally posted by ****y On Venus
My ex-boyfriend of a year and a half was in the closet. He was not out to any of his family and friends and he told me that he didn't plan on coming out, EVER.
After getting fed up with the sneaking and hiding and the sex in the backseat of his beamer (well I do miss that) anyway, I was fed up and tired of being his secret. I gave him a final ultimatum, either cut out this facade he was putting on for everyone else or we were done.
He said he was not coming out to his family and If that's what I wanted home to do, then to hell with our relationship.
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I feel bad for him to be honest... Coming out isn't an easy thing...
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Member Since: 5/28/2010
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Originally posted by Attitude
I n my freshman year at high school, me and my friend were walking to class. All of a sudden a jock who used to be my old classmate comes up to us. He tells my friend to stop hanging out with me because I was gay. I was embarrassed, but that whole rest of the day my friend didn't speak to me or acknowledge that I was even in his presence. Later that night he texts me saying he no longer wants to be my friend because I was ruining his reputation. I haven't spoken to him ever since and now he hangs out with the jock and look at me with dirty looks.
There's also this one time when my little brother called 911 and a bunch of policeman showed up. Well anyways my mom who can't speak english correctly calls me down to talk to them. I had no idea what was going on and I go downstairs. One of the policemen starts to ask me questions and I answer them. He asks why I called 911 and I kept telling them it was my little brother. Then they started to leave and the police man looked at me and said, "A real man would tell the truth and not blame others, especially a 6 year old kid". He left and then i just ran to my room and started to cry. |
People like your ex-friend need to get READ. And I mean READ. You should have read his ass down in front of everybody. Make his reputation worse. Expose that phony. Ohh that pisses me off...I wish a ***** would!! You should have went in on his ass for being a fake popularity-thriving dickhead. I'm suddenly getting hot and bothered.
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
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Originally posted by Fadicuss
So, it would have to be in love when that guy I was madly in love told me : "I really like you but not in the same way you like me!! But I still want us to be friends and nothing to change" That sentence.. meant 1 week of crying |
GIRL!
That and the "If you were a girl I would date you in a second" kill me.
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Member Since: 2/16/2010
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
She CLEARLY knows nothing about love if the album is called Love?
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Everyone questions love, the album just outlines the journey she's gone through with it. She wants to teach you all her lessons.
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In all seriousness, I can't think of anything right now. No one gives me any crap because I'm universally known as a nice guy who everyone gets along with. My parents & people around me have never said anything really hurtful. I'm so grateful for how kind people have been to me in my life. I'm surrounded by really great people, & I just don't associate with rotten apples. I only keep those around me that really care.
My heart goes out to all of you.  I'm always here to comfort you all.
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
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Originally posted by ifyouseekLEM
For a while, my family and I lived in a semi-rough neighborhood.
One time I was hanging out with my homegurl outside and this dude from middle school walked up to me...I honestly don't remember all the specifics, but we got into a fist fight (in which I lost)...and he pinned up against a fence with his goonie backing him up (my homegurl was behind me watching from a distance ).
He called me a "****ing worthless ******"....and it wasn't the words that hurt me as much as it was the look in his eyes when he said it. It just resonated so deeply with me to the point where I nearly believed him.........why would he say that to me?....Do I really come off in such a way that someone would have the audacity to say that to my face?.....Surely if he said that, then others think that of me?
I honestly bust out into tears once I got home. |
The last time I was beat up I was 8 years old and I felt so embarrassed and weak, its safe to say that time was the last for a reason, I refuse to let anyone touch me and live to tell the tale.
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When I was six or something and I overheard my dad say to my mom "**** the kids" basically saying he didn't give a damn about us,this was when my mom and dad were still together. I have a better relationship with him now though.
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Member Since: 11/11/2010
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
I LOVE people like that. The ones that use certain qualities to their convenience. People that aren't religious pretending to be when it helps them or the situation they're in, people that aren't nice pretending to be when it helps them or the situation they're in...it's just so hilarious. But they're beyond help when they do things like that, so it's not like I care. |
Right? That's how most religious people I know are. They only bring up their religion when it makes them seem like a better person than me. I don't understand why people are like that, though. People treat religion like a little black dress, and use it occasionally when it's "cool".
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Originally posted by Jared
I've been through things that have been said in this thread like being called "******", being bullied, and judged on so I won't go into detail.
But I am going to say that I do not regret being bullied on or wish it never happened. Because they made me into the strong person that I am today. If some hater called me a "******" to my face (which I doubt they would have enough guts to actually do it) I would go IN on them and make them pray for mercy. Ain't no one gonna pull that **** with me.
I hope you all feel the same powerful way. |
Me too! As strange as it sounds, I wouldn't take back all of the years of bullying I experienced. Had I not experienced bullying, I would be more insecure and weak now than I was back then. It made me a stronger person.
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My birthday was last Friday, and my best friend, came to my house before the party was started, she came with her sister ans with another friend, well she said that my party was a flop, and my Brother-in-low, was singing in the karaoke, and she said that he was awful and fat (well that was thue) but then she said that friday paties sucks, and i told her, WTH are you saying, Friday is the hot stuff right now, and i got really mad, so i said that skank that i don't care bout her or her friends, and i got angry,, i entered my house and took all my angriness over my sistah and bother-in-low, I know i screw it, but 30 minutes later, other friends came to my house, we dance, laughed, drunk shots, and i ended puking on a already puked toilet in somewhere i dunno!
Yesterdey Morning was like
That's all my history.
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