I couldnt see myself having sex with girls, and that's even if i am not even gay to some people, they tell me i dont act like a gay guy AT ALL. I once accompanied a friend of mine and we went into a gay bar, then a gay friend of his joined us and even after a couple of hours he didnt believe me that i was gay ... But anyway, i do realize that some girls used to find me attractive (i got my first kiss at the age of 6 by a girl in the elementary school ) ...and i dunno if i should like or dislike that fact, cause actually thats not what i am interested in...
You can still have kids and be gay. Well in Canada..
LET'S MOVE TO CANADA !
I'm definetely bisexual. Women excite me and I sleep with them. But I can't fall in love with a girl, I don't know why. when we talk about love, it's always with boys.
I know the Kinsey theory... and it's just that, a theory. I don't need to subscribe to it.
I agree that it isn't easily defined. I just like to play devil's advocate for the people who never fail to pipe in about how they want to have sex with "a" woman so they're naturally bisexual, and the like. It's not really that I'm saying people are 100% either or. It's simply that in many (most?) cases, labels can and should be applied. Being attracted to one girl (or thinking you could possibly in some murky morning go to bed with a girl in the distant future) doesn't mean you're sexually confused and should discard the very principle of calling yourself gay. The exception is still only an exception. It's fun to think about reshaping your sexuality, but it seems so silly in light of all the issues that LGBT people have faced. It makes all of their problems seem trivial--easily solved by "changing" something within themselves. It seems like a false escape.
I think you're talking about the millions of gay men who don't want to admit they're gay; they use sexual fluidity as an excuse. "Heteroflexibles" and all these "bi-curious" people fall into this category; they think it's better to be bisexual than gay.
But for the majority of people, sexual fluidity is a very real concept. Don't tell me you've never felt like stuffing Eli the snake into a cave.
I think every gay guy is actually bi tbh. But I also think that if you are a guy who like's guys, you're gay, regardless of your views towards women. I think being gay means that I develop feelings for other guys, and that I want to be in a relationship with a guy. But sex is a different story. You can have sex with someone and not have any emotions attached to it.
I'm definetely bisexual. Women excite me and I sleep with them. But I can't fall in love with a girl, I don't know why. when we talk about love, it's always with boys.
I'M WAITING FOR YOU BITCH!
I'm always amazed by bisexual people. I feel like I didn't meet enough of them in my life to really understand it proprely.
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I think you're talking about the millions of gay men who don't want to admit they're gay; they use sexual fluidity as an excuse. "Heteroflexibles" and all these "bi-curious" people fall into this category; they think it's better to be bisexual than gay.
But for the majority of people, sexual fluidity is a very real concept. Don't tell me you've never felt like stuffing Eli the snake into a cave.
If you are talking about pure bisexual people, then yes it's a real concept for the majority. They are attracted to both sex and it will probably stay this way all their lives.
But, for others, I don't really think we're talking about the majority here. Yes, you may have wondered how would it be to have sex with a woman, but that doesn't mean you're more straight. For your question, no I've never WANTED to stuff my snake into this cave, just because I've never felt any attraction to a woman.
The same thing with straight people. I'm pretty sure most of them don't have any desires to have a sexual contact with the same sex. When I use to ask this question to my girlfriends and male friends, they were all saying that no they could never do it, they're just not attracted.
So I think that all this bi-curious apply for the minority. Most of us have only been attracted to one sex and we probably tried to go with the other sex once just to be sure, but it doesn't mean anything.
I think you're talking about the millions of gay men who don't want to admit they're gay; they use sexual fluidity as an excuse. "Heteroflexibles" and all these "bi-curious" people fall into this category; they think it's better to be bisexual than gay.
But for the majority of people, sexual fluidity is a very real concept. Don't tell me you've never felt like stuffing Eli the snake into a cave.
I've never felt that way. Not in real life. I'm sure I could fantasize about being with a celebrity (as you said), because there's something kinky about that regardless of gender. But I've never felt a sexual attraction towards a girl I actually know. Even if she has an amazing ass/legs (which is my weakness) and I'm staring at her while she walks away, I know I wouldn't be able to get hard for her.
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I think every gay guy is actually bi tbh. But I also think that if you are a guy who like's guys, you're gay, regardless of your views towards women. I think being gay means that I develop feelings for other guys, and that I want to be in a relationship with a guy. But sex is a different story. You can have sex with someone and not have any emotions attached to it.
This is where I disagree... (I know you weren't talking to me lol.) Not everyone is bi. People who are bi, are bi. They can have real relationships with both genders. There are "levels" of bisexuality, though, and that's where it gets blurry. Of course it's POSSIBLE for pretty much anyone to have sex with anyone but that doesn't mean they want to or are naturally attracted to their partner.
If you are talking about pure bisexual people, then yes it's a real concept for the majority. They are attracted to both sex and it will probably stay this way all their lives.
But, for others, I don't really think we're talking about the majority here. Yes, you may have wondered how would it be to have sex with a woman, but that doesn't mean you're more straight. For your question, no I've never WANTED to stuff my snake into this cave, just because I've never felt any attraction to a woman.
The same thing with straight people. I'm pretty sure most of them don't have any desires to have a sexual contact with the same sex. When I use to ask this question to my girlfriends and male friends, they were all saying that no they could never do it, they're just not attracted.
So I think that all this bi-curious apply for the minority. Most of us have only been attracted to one sex and we probably tried to go with the other sex once just to be sure, but it doesn't mean anything.
I can totally relate! Don't want to sound ignorant or very stereotypical, but I'm the type of "gay" person that everyone can tell, despite the fact I'm still closet. Anyway, I sometimes watch straight ****. But when I see a vagina I'm like "ew" but I'll still watch it.
I'm 100% gay BUT sometimes when I watch a scene of a really sexy girl seducing a guy I'll get horny (example Megan Fox and the car scene in Transformers, Victoria Secret ads, etc) BUT when I have the thought of being sexual with a girl, I get grossed out. Never. In. My. Life.
And this is an example of what I was talking about:
I think you're talking about the millions of gay men who don't want to admit they're gay; they use sexual fluidity as an excuse. "Heteroflexibles" and all these "bi-curious" people fall into this category; they think it's better to be bisexual than gay.
I think you're talking about the millions of gay men who don't want to admit they're gay; they use sexual fluidity as an excuse. "Heteroflexibles" and all these "bi-curious" people fall into this category; they think it's better to be bisexual than gay.
But for the majority of people, sexual fluidity is a very real concept. Don't tell me you've never felt like stuffing Eli the snake into a cave.
That's funny you mention it because all my friends who are gay came out as bi first. I guess it's because they wanted to get accepted. My friend is the captain of the volleyball team and is "bi", and is probably the only guy I know that came out as bi but never fully admitted he is gay. He's been "bi" since third year in highschool, and after three years, he's still "bi", even after dating only men and never a female.
I've had emotional attachments to a few girls and I've been sexually attracted to maybe one girl my entire life - but those were mutually exclusive experiences. When I had feelings, there was nothing physical about it. When I was physically attracted, there were no feelings.
On the contrary, I have always been physically attracted to men. I can remember being attracted to men when I was little. I had crushes on celebrities (I didn't see it as that back then but looking back, that's what it was) but I didn't have feelings for a guy I knew in real life until I was 16. Since then, I've had no feelings or sexual attraction to women. So, I consider myself gay
That's funny you mention it because all my friends who are gay came out as bi first. I guess it's because they wanted to get accepted. My friend is the captain of the volleyball team and is "bi", and is probably the only guy I know that came out as bi but never fully admitted he is gay. He's been "bi" since third year in highschool, and after three years, he's still "bi", even after dating only men and never a female.
haha that's SO true for me
When I first came out to my best friend, I told her I was bi. She was super shocked, but took it in a good way, but she never tought I wasn't 100% straight. Then, she started asking me who I had crushes in high school then if I was bi. I started to give her a list...only guys She was like, no girls?? haha. After 1 week, I wasn't "bi" anymore, but 100% gay.
There are times that if I did come out I would come out as bi, like I said earlier, it seems more accepted. And it's definitely not an insecure thing. People who are bi definitley get accepted more than gay people
I think people who come out as bi get more comfortable after, and after realizing that everything isn't as bad as they thought it was, that's when they fully come out as gay
I would never suck them or want them in my face or something.
Same with ***.
I'm only here for hairy chest, muscles, assholes and some other parts of the body that definitely are part of some fetish...and I LOOOOOVE to be fetish
But seriously...dick is ugly
I'm 100% gay though. (2 ex-girlfriends back in the days but just to look If I like It or not...and I didn't)
There are times that if I did come out I would come out as bi, like I said earlier, it seems more accepted. And it's definitely not an insecure thing. People who are bi definitley get accepted more than gay people
I think people who come out as bi get more comfortable after, and after realizing that everything isn't as bad as they thought it was, that's when they fully come out as gay
Exactly. I think I did it because bi was like between straight and gay. In my head, it's was easier to accept for my best friend. So, if it went really bad, I would just have said that I'm more attracted to women. But it went well with everybody, so I didn't have to use the "bi" thing after this.
I really think that some people are bisexuals. I'm the kind of person who doesn't care about people, since I was 18 I told to my friends tha I was atracted to boys too. I can't make a choice, I'll always be excited by girls too.
My sexual fantasy is to have a treesome, with a boy and a girl.
That will be awsome.
... But anyway, i do realize that some girls used to find me attractive (i got my first kiss at the age of 6 by a girl in the elementary school 
Well in Canada.. 
