It's all in the delivery, Barb.
When stating your thoughts, try giving a well-rounded opinion. If you're feeling
generous, maybe give a positive (if there is one) before you tear apart the
song or album. It doesn't hurt to be a little light-hearted and throw some
humour here and there. Gifs and emoticons also tend to lesson the blow.
Note: Beware fans of the new, up and coming singer, "Leona Lewis," though.
...Vin