So, if you didn't know already, I'm a finalist in the ATRL NEXT TOP MEMBER 4. This is the final round and I need your support to win. If you can just cast a vote and say "FOXAY" in a reply to the thread, I would greatly appreciate it. I've worked hard in this game and I don't want my efforts to go to waste.

I'm trying to do the unthinkable and become not just the first female winner of Top Member, but also the first black winner. It's the best of both worlds. And I hope I can break down such barriers with your support. So with that said, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE head to the top member thread and reply to it saying "FOXAY." I promise I won't message you begging for votes if you do this.

http://atrl.net/forums/showthread.php?t=92744&page=180

Thanks,

FOXAY

Low income question.

I think if me and a guy were making enough money to get by that money isn't important. It certainly can't buy happiness.

You marry someone cuz' you love him, not cuz' he got tons of money, we are not 17yo hotties who are lookin' for a suger dady .

At least he is makin' something for livin' and those kind of things can change at any givin' time, someone with high income can lose his job and all of his savings in a heartbeat.

It would be stupid to not or to marry someone cuz' of money.

I think a few people mentioned this already, so I'll just reiterate that if the person is genuinely making an effort to get on the right track, then I have to respect that. I think a working woman is kind of sexy, like the women in the Miss Independent video. She doesn't have to be like a Harvard-grad making six figures, but a woman with a career and goals in mind is a lot more attractive any day.

What is your definition of low income? as long as the guy is being responsible and working i have no problem with him making less income. That said nothing irks me more then a lot of girls i have have seen that live like a goddess on a broke bitches bank account.

If you cant afford a Gucci Bag you aint Gucci bitch!

Yes.

"Even If You Were Broke, My Love Don't Cost a Thing."

my luv dont cost a thang, but my sex will break yo bank!

sure If I truly loved that person

Everything happens for a reason. If we love each other despite of low income my partner is getting, then we can make a way to live financially enough. Besides, I'm the man in the relationship so I will be the one to find a stable, well-paying job.

BUMP

Honesty, kindness, a good sense of humour, nice hair , loyalty, spontaneity and similar interests like music, games, travelling etc.
And if the guy bores me even once it won't work. And I like fighting every now and then, sometimes it's really good to scream and shout then to make up 10 minutes later, it's good for relieving stress.
And I would NEVER go for a 'Yes, man', I like men to not be afraid to have their own opinion even if it disagrees with mine. You can't build a relationship where you just ******** eachother to keep eachother happy, you have to agree on the important things and disagree on the little from time to time.

Love, kindness that's al!!! or at least the most important for me. My lover needs to be someone caring, friendly and faithful, cute and with a perfect smile and well I've already found it B

I don't think I'm old enough to know for sure. But, as a teenager, I just look for the basics. Decent looks and a personality I can go along with. Those two will pretty much guarantee my interest. Things that are a bonus: similar music taste, laid-back attitude (too hyper or coming on too strong = HUGE turn offs) and girls who remember little details about myself (shows they listen).

I think my list of things I DON'T want is much longer than the list of things I DO want. That should be a question.

I would love to meet someone who is inteligent, shares the same interests and impresses me, but a grown-up and honest person beyond all the others.

i dont care what anyone else says but a hot body is what i look for

if they are nice then its a plus but thats it