She kept dismissing it and changing the subject

well you gotta stop letting her play you and let the bitch know you gonna need the Hat pronto

what kinda hat is this anyways if you dont mind me asking

White Nike cap....I have emotional attachment to this cap

If someone steals from you that means they dont consider you their "friend" theyre just going to use you to get stuff with or without your permission.

I would delete her off any social media, delete her number after telling her whats good.

I feel bad for you in this situation. You cut her off now, then you probably won't see your hat again.

Still be friends with her. Go to her home and hang out 'like good old friends'. And when she falls a sleep or even steps out to the restroom, search for your hat in her room, if you can't find it, grab something valuable and ran away of that house. Then you can give such item after she agrees to returns your hat.

She is a bully and she is testing your patience.

After you exchange items, then cut her off and put a restraining order against her. Also teld her you have gun at your home.

lol.... im too old for this...

but just tell her to give it back...its not that big deal.

HEY GURL....gimme my hat!

thats it.

plant her in the backyard to fertilize your grapefruit tree to grapefruit your next man.

I got the hat back, and the confrontation wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be. I just asserted myself and did not allow her to dismiss what I was saying. Thanks for the advise.

jump her

I've had this happen. My **** was missing, my glasses, make up and then my year book. I looked in my friends purse for gum and BOP my glasses, I snatched them so fast and never talked to her again.

Once I got fed up with one of my friends taking my things without my permission so I pulled one of his nails in his sleep using pliers. Had to yank it really quickly tho otherwise I wouldn't have been able to pull it off.

It is really frustrating to deal with a friend like this!!! like bitch my stuff is my stuff!!

My friends never come to my house, if i had my own place i would always have people over

You have to draw a heavy line with some friends unfortunately. One time one of my friends left her wallet at my place and then she tried to break into my apartment to get it while I was at work. Obviously we are no longer friends, some people just need to know that they are stepping over boundaries.


Don't, eventually you'll be tired of cleaning the mess and all your **** will break. people won't take care of your things like you do.