My best friend who's a straight female met a guy on tinder a while ago who told her he was bisexual. She wasn't really comfortable with the thought, but at the same felt bad for not being open to the idea and at least giving him a chance. I told her she doesn't have to feel guilty. If something simply doesn't feel right for you, you don't have to force it.
It's different with Amber since she's bi herself, but then again you gotta do what feels right for you. If she doesn't wanna date a bi man I'd say that's fine. It's not like she's discriminating against them. She deserves props for being honest about it.
Your post is just as stupid as her statement. Like what about what she said invalidates her sexuality and proves her being bi is fake?
girl use some logic. would a REAL bisexual person think "no, a bisexual person would make me uncomfortable" how does this make sense to you idgi, but yeah i am the stupid one ..
she is a celebrity which mens here chances of being cheated on increase a lot. It's also hollywood so who knows what closet cases are around saying they are bi...
I do appreciate how raw and honest she was with it, especially admitting it's more of a personal insecurity and something she should be thinking more about.
girl use some logic. would a REAL bisexual person think "no, a bisexual person would make me uncomfortable" how does this make sense to you idgi, but yeah i am the stupid one ..
Anybody can be a hypocrite about anything quite frankly, humans beings don't always base their feelings on how they wanna be treated. Some bi people not being open to other bi people as sexual partners sounds realistic even if questionable.
It comes from the homophobic idea that there must be something wrong with a man for him to want sex with other men. Straight/bi women with this 'preference' are partially homophobic.
I'm not dissing bi men here or all over and I'm not saying queers are better, but almost all the bis are met are more selfish than gays and will have no problem replacing their bf or a person for a woman then deny their gay encounter. They are embarrassed of their gays bf and assume being with one is just for fun and trials . I even dated one who rudely told me I would never have a normal life and get married with kids but he can. I'm not saying gays are better, but I feel bisexuals often cater to the gays and the gay community whenever needed then masquerade their sexuality just to not be attacked by straights. Then, again if I what I'm saying is a reflection of poor judgment, I'm entitled to cause I have been in certain negative experience.
The classic "bisexuals are all cheating ****s" and probably some of that "bi men are really gay" nonsense. It's her choice and I would never say that someone should have to date someone they didn't want to, but her line of thinking is very prejudiced and inaccurate. If you are with someone and you trust and respect each other, you shouldn't fear them cheating on you no matter their orientation.
girl use some logic. would a REAL bisexual person think "no, a bisexual person would make me uncomfortable" :rip: how does this make sense to you idgi, but yeah i am the stupid one ..
Yes? Hypocrisy is illogical sometimes. There are gay people who dislike other gays, and fems etc, so why can't she actually be bi and be insecure about her man being with other men? Is it logical? Nope. But it hardly invalidates her sexuality. So yeah, still you.