That's how people get murdered and/or stalkers.

My first date with my current boyfriend (we've been together for 3 years) was in my dorm room itself.

If you really bond with them, ask the person first if they want the same as you, if you want a relationship I think it would be better and more special to wait because sex without feelings is just boring and vapid, at least to me.
I had sex with a guy once on the first date and after that we both moved on, sex should be more than a physical experience, at least to me. But you're free to do what you want.

I get the "don't worry about what other people think" but let's just say it's my family so that changes things lol.

My friends all agree with me, my family is who doesn't. And obviously ai'm my own person by I do feel guilt.

Do whatever you want bro.

If you want to actually see where it can go with a guy, it's better to not have sex on the first date and keep it casual for a bit.

There's not need to feel guilty because you get one life and no do overs

I wouldn't mind. If it's solely for netflixing

On a serious note, only if I knew him prior to the date. Otherwise, I'd wait until the third date most likely.

Of course. If the date went well, or if you're doing something at your house specifically (like watching movies, playing games or drinking/smoking, etc) then If you're both cool with it then who cares

It's definitely normal/fairly common in the gay community. But you have to remember the gay community is very liberal when it comes to sex.

It's definitely "okay", there's nothing immoral about it. If it's what both of you on the date want then of course, why wouldn't you do it?

If your family don't approve then just don't tell them.