Not really, only one irl and one online. I have a lesbian friend, though.

Maybe I'm socially inept but I absolutely fail at connecting with other gay guys

I have 2 close male gay friends and a couple female friends who are bi but most of my friends are straight.

I don't even know a single gay person irl

Nah, I got rid of all my friends. Too much stimulation over useless things. I have workmates that I refuse to interact with outside work hours though.

I have more straight friends than gay friends, but yeah, I do.

No.

I have a nice little handful of gay male friends but they're all scattered around the country at this point. I've made a few friends from apps who are in the Chicago area but we don't hang out super regularly. I wish I had a centralized gay friend group like the guy I'm dating because it seems so fun and loving (they're not catty gays).

Nope not as far as I'm concerned

Yep, a lot of them.