True. Though, a lot of the times, it's hard to divorce those kinds of "constructive" narratives from the various social biases people have about minority groups. (i.e. on affirmative action, some people just don't want to see minorities surpass them).
Sticking with that example, I've had debates on affirmative action with some PoC that express concerns that those programs aren't actually reaching their target demographics. And are being diverted to minorities who already have resources. So we should decentralize our efforts around affirmative action and look at more grassroots efforts. That's a fair talking point.
Then I've had debates on affirmative action with some white people who's only grievance about it is that "it's not fair". Disregarding the historical context it arose from and lacking insight on the socio-political climate that preserves its necessity. That's whining and, also, really just willful ignorance.
So after encountering a lot of the second one, I can pretty much just rule that it's racial bias at work and not worry about rehashing the same debates. It's such a fine line and I think he does a great job of explaining it.
