I'm the complete opposite

Defense mechanism.

Exactly. If anything, most of my friends would describe me as "doggy."

ATRL loves reinforcing stereotypes, most of the gay men I know are actually pretty chill.

Because they're insecure.

This.

it's so annoying when people stereotype our entire sexuality because they don't like the ones they personally have experience with :|

Not all gay men are catty...

maybe growing up in a society that teaches them their core emotions and attraction are morally corrupt jaded them and a select group of the community choose to deal with that, at no fault of their own, with anger.


when you have parents disowning kids, their peers beating them up for something they can't change, it's obviously going to effect their personality.

Gays are not monolithic.

I don't know, but they tend not to like me.

Most that I know aren't like that, although there are a few.

Idk which why I don't have gay friends. The thing is I'm actually worse than most gay men. I'd rather have PRETTY girlfriends.

There's a certain culture within groups of the gay community that promotes and reinforces bitchy behaviour. I don't know for sure where it comes from but it's irritating and puts everyone else in such a bad light.

It goes away (or should) with age, like once you're past your early 20s at most. I guess you overcompensate and mimic learned behaviours and then once you develop a genuine confidence in yourself that gets old real fast.

I don't know any catty gays, nor would anyone say that about me.

That's why I'm a member on atrl - so I can be the bitch I was born to be. I tried being nice but people complained. Now I'm trying something different - people are still complaining. It's fun. I like to shake things up and test how far I can push people.