I think some people(the majority) are born gay, but I think there's a lot of cases that they "become" gay.

So yeah it's possible to revert it and find a woman and be happy afterwards

no

I'm tired of these people coming into a safe place for the LGBTQ community dropping insensitive comments like this.

I think what you mean is people who when they're young, think they're gay, but then marry a woman? In this case, they probably are bisexual. Puberty through earlier 20s is when a lot of experimentation happens, and because of society's pressure to put people in boxes, sometimes young people inaccurately label themselves a certain sexuality (for some people, this is calling themselves bi when they're really just straight-curious or gay). However, it is impossible to go from gay to straight, because there is no "choice." I truly think there is no such thing as strict sexuality. I think if every person on Earth right now was raised in a society where there was no sexual discrimination, people would be a lot more free when it comes to sexuality. I have known many straight men who have had feelings for other men, but never had the chance to discuss it and understand it because of society, and I have known many women who feel the same way.

When you're questioning your sexuality, but were raised from Day 1 to believe there's only gay and straight, and one will give you a "happy life" and the other is wrong, evil, and gets you killed, which would you chose, even if it meant lying to yourself?

Having a straight marriage does not mean you're straight. It's not love, sis, it's just a perfect illusion. Lots of older gay men are in straight marriages and "happy" because they've accepted that they've rather deal with a safe marriage than a loving one where they'd be persecuted, harassed, and told how they're decision is a "choice" like you're doing.

So your telling people what they really are and aren't? You're correct that there are some gay males who pretend to be straight, but there are also former gay males who have turned straight and are happy w/ being who they truly are. How is accusing a former gay male of not really being straight any different than accusing a former straight male of not truly being gay? Who are you to tell somebody who they really are and what they really felt?

You know gay people can get married and have children, right?

I agree with pretty much everything you said, except I do think sexuality is fluid, so a guy could be gay most of his life and then find himself attracted to women or even meet just one woman who makes him question everything he thought he knew about his sexuality. Same with straight guys or girls - maybe they could end up finding themselves attracted to the same sex later in life. Unfortunately, as you said, society is obsessed with putting us into boxes - or worse, shaming us for out sexualities - so we can't always act on our feelings.

of course NO

Yes, of course by the grace and mercy of God. It all depends if you want to change.

They can become bisexual, or pan sexual