Hello sistrens
I consider myself a pretty good looking guy and very outgoing,
problem is i am a terrible flirt and I can never tell when someone is hitting on me.
I can never look at cute guys straight to their eyes and when guys come up to me I'm super awkward and I can never keep an authentic conversation going cause I'm so nervous.
Do you guys have any tips for flirting at the bars or clubs?
What are some of your flirting tactics, should I dress skimpier even if it's snowing?

Discuss

I can never look at cute guys straight to their eyes and when guys come up to me

Originally posted by DirtyPony87 *looks at avi* *Looks at location* Well hello there

Originally posted by PersonalJesus I can never look at cute guys straight to their eyes

Originally posted by PersonalJesus .

Originally posted by U4EA I think you should work on this. A man's eyes are a dead giveaway. Even if you don't think you can flirt, and anyone can as long as they feel comfortable and safe, you can learn so much about where somebody's at just by watching them as they watch you. Someone might have already looked at you and wondered if you were the most real, rare thing they'd ever seen, and you wouldn't even know it since you were too scared to make eye contact. Think about THAT.

Originally posted by chilicheese01 When you make eye contact, smile at him. That's what I did, and it worked!

Originally posted by PersonalJesus My problem with this is that "when I do" look at them in the eyes and they smile back I look down and continue what I'm doing