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I am going for a date with someone I know from instagram this weekend. We are going to watch Star Wars movie and then spend the night together in his place. I plan to cook something for him. We will see how this one goes although we both know we just want to go out having fun without too much expectation

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Mess at the first 2 replies. You guys are not

i love my boyfriend, but that's just not enough to make me happy, but its still enough to keep me from killing myself. thats all

We listen to good music so it's ok

I shouldn't, it would be a mess

This won't be a hit thread for obvious reasons



Kiii

It won't. Unless I open hook up thread

That's the homepage sis, no thread required

I'm taking a break from dating because I always seem to get stuck in dick-sand, aka changing myself to fit the person I'm with and always getting so tied up with them.

Make sure not to rely on him too much for your happiness. Sometimes you have to let go a little and assess yourself to find that inner confidence / spark you need to take on life. Find what inspires you and run with it. You'll be much better at loving that way too.

Nn

I am just dating around in general, but i'm taking 18 credits so it's been hard to coordinate schedule with others. and a really good friend moved to LA and we would be dating if he hadn't moved so it's been kinda hard. We're both dating/messing around with other people but really care about each other too so some conflicted feelings n stuff.

I am going home for a month after finals and there are no attractive gays in my hometown, and I'll be taking 6 credits in 3 weeks so I'll be busy regardless. Between finals rn and winter break, my dating life is basically on hold until end of January lmao. Well... maybe not on second thought. There's this one really cute guy who is a store manager and his schedule has been insane because holidays and he lives kinda far. We can't meet for a long ass time because we're both busy but maybe a weekend in January idk.

Anyway, that LA friend is coming home for a visit at end of Jan-early Feb and we are going to have amazing... quality time together. woo

when is it too late to have sex in a relationship. i like to take things real slow and wait about 6 months minimum before i try anal . I was in an on and off relationship for about a year and a half in HS and the guy got really angry and aggressive.... let me not share my traumatic relationship on here, but anyway it really affected me and i'm just very Mariah when it comes to having sex and I'm just not here for it, but if that's what pleases him then i guess i'll do it but i just don't know when

from my past experience, don't do it on the first date You will end up to hate each other after 3 weeks

Sis, give time for yourself first No need to have serious relationship for now. Maybe dating around is better

I would be quite hesitant on doing anything for a temporary span of time. I'm at the point in my life where I don't want to see my time wasted like that. Plus, I get way too attached to people who get close to me in life. I'm way too loyal.

If you're taking that many units, I don't recommend dating anyone. I got broken up with because a guy taking 18 just couldn't invest the time in a relationship, and this hurt me beyond belief. It's really not worth damaging someone like that.

i was thinking months. is a 6 month wait period too much? i really want him to stick around for that long and i need a man with good intentions

I was really having a long term relationship in mind for first 6 months of dating but lately I've kind of accepted it's not gonna happen in college. So yeah, I'm basically just dating around. I will have a good job come next Fall (it's set in stone), so at that point I will probably try to find more serious again. I'm only 21 so I'm realistic that I'm still young.

College makes scheduling near impossible. With a 9 to 5 your nights are free (mostly), but this semester I had classes go late a lot and a TON of evening group meetings + homework + extracurriculars after classes (I help run a program). So like even trying to go out to meet for drinks was an easy task.