So last night me and this guy met up to chill and smoke and he came to my place and so the conversation was going great at first and then it literally died out and he would give like super small responses and then he went on his phone. So I was just laying there watching Netflix and he was on his phone basically the whole time and it was just very awkward. We were texting for about a month before this and even in text he would seem pretty dry at times. Neither of us have texted each other yet.

So, what would you or have you texted the person after an awkward time with them like this? Do you tell them it's probably not going to work out?

"You got any single friends?

don't lol

Yea, I was thinking of just not texting at all, I guess thats probably just the best choice haha.

Do you think it was because you guys were stoned? If that's the case, then I say give it another shot.

If it's because the conversation naturally got awkward, it's ovah my sistren.

You guys were texting for an entire month before ever meeting?

Text him: "Hey" . If he doesn't respond, ignore him. Maybe he just wanted a hook-up

just tell him it was a **** date and you should have another go at it

If you're not interested in seeing him again and he seems just as disinterested just don't text back at all.

At least there's a common connection so you know you probably would get along & that they're not a catfish. Talking to someone you met on Tinder for example for that amount of time is a complete waste of emotional energy. Y'all should be having minimal conversation outside arranging the time to meet.

OT: Don't text them ever again lol

i would tell he to stop be coochie and bend me over

Try hanging out sober. I know personally, weed makes me self-conscious and awkward to be around.

I just had one and I didn't text him, he didn't text me