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Originally posted by FBF
I'm not for those kind of therapy but I'm wondering why we're all so against it.
People want to change their sexuality because society tell them their society is wrong.
But people change the way they look (plastic surgery) because society tell them they don't fit beauty standards, and it's become quite socially acceptable to have plastic surgery
Why the difference ?
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Bad analogy. Beauty standards are very broad and subjective, a certain type of beauty, even if deemed as wrong, is just different as in there's available fulfillment a person can achieve in various beauty standards. Different beauty standards share so many patterns (nose type, eye color, skin color, hair type, body type, etc) that they're attainable for people in all races and conditions. Now, if you completely shun a beauty standard that's called racism and you know where that discussion goes. Also, the changes in surgery can range from very subtle to drastic in a huge spectrum, so vast that it exceeds the spectrum of sexualities in a sort of Sun to Earth ratio, there isn't as much sexualities as physical subtleties in which beauty can be measured, again, so broadly and subjectively.
Sexuality just can't be wrong, it is what it is, it's even more rigid than gender itself, it can't be changed with hormones or surgery like a gender transition. Sexuality, as more and more evidence shows, is linked with genetic nature. Subject a person to such a therapy is just puting them in a state of delusion that can bring so many disorders that it can be very prejudicial to them. Depression, anxiety, low self-esteem (from the lack of self-acceptance and effectiveness of the therapy), loss of confidence, etc. You just can't do that to a person, the only way to go is to try to make the person contently accept their sexuality and help them incorporate it healthily in their lifestyle.
Conversion therapy is bad. It's as medieval as to try to cure syphilis with mercury.