Just think about it: would you want someone to tell you your partner is cheating on you so you can save your ass and ditch his cheating ass or do you want to live like a fool and be played?
1. collect evidence (you should've snapped a photo or recorded the audio)
2. confront him and threaten to tell your mom if he ever does it again, for the sake of your nephew/niece
3. tell him to come clean
4. track the woman and ****-shame her into leaving your brother
5. come clean with your brother and tell him you will keep the secret (bro before hoe) or
6. drop hints of his lil hook up in front of him (make sure his wife is nearby), once he's caught on and confronted you, threaten him and use the secret as leverage to get what you want
knowing you, no 4 and 6 would do the trick. good luck
@ ATRL providing another member these step-by-step instructions. let me make a poll asking if anyone else has ever caught one of their closer ones cheat on someone
Yeah, she was sick. i talk to her occasionally and if they were fighting I would've known. They're both LOUD and it always ends with her cursing him out and him doing the same.
I don't know if I'd tell her... But at least confront your brother about it cause he at least should have some respect for your mother and yourself to not bring his jump off in front of you and at your mother's house if it's to do some nasty thing.
It is NOT ur business. Only tell him to be careful if u want so he knows u know. Thats all I would do. The second option is to pretend nothing happened.
Thanks everyone, I really appreciate all the comments and I'm feeling a bit better. I'm thinking the best course of action is to confront him and tell him I don't like what he did and he should've respected his relationship. I pray to god that somehow my sister in law doesn't find out cause bitches in my mom's neighborhood are nosy as hell. If she found out I know for a fact that she might murder his ass and I'm serious about this too.
do not tell ur mom or his wife lol. they must not hear it from you unless it's the last option. you're better off sending a letter like martha huber did to mary alice
But wait OP, why you didn't bust into the room with the camera up recording a video? You could've had some evidence and this would make it a little easier.
the thing is, if you tell the wife and she still stays then YOU look like the fool. I would wait this one out. get a feel for how things are going at the house.
Dude this isn't rocket science, talk to your brother , drag his ass for not only cheating on his gurl but cheating on his gurl at your mom house while both you and your mom ( who go nuts over stuff like that) are in the next rooms. Drag him to hell and back. If you need support you have another brother to help you drag his ass. If you can't talk to your brother about stuff like that you guys aren't close as you say you are.
But wait OP, why you didn't bust into the room with the camera up recording a video? You could've had some evidence and this would make it a little easier.
Bust in on my brother nailing some ****?
Honestly, I was shocked because such a thing never happened before. I was kinda drawing blank and retreated back to my laptop and ignoring the sounds.
Thanks everyone, I really appreciate all the comments and I'm feeling a bit better. I'm thinking the best course of action is to confront him and tell him I don't like what he did and he should've respected his relationship. I pray to god that somehow my sister in law doesn't find out cause bitches in my mom's neighborhood are nosy as hell. If she found out I know for a fact that she might murder his ass and I'm serious about this too.
She works with him? Do you think this has been going on for a while like have you seen them together? cause if he has feelings for her it's a whole different ball game and he needs to tell his wife
Dead at people saying don't do anything about it. If the family breaks apart that won't be your fault, it will be your brothers. He ruined that family the moment he decided to cheat on his wife.
You should confront him and if he's not willing to tell her, you should either tell his wife or tell your mom and let her handle this.
Who knows if he has cheated on her before or if this will be the last time?
Dude this isn't rocket science, talk to your brother , drag his ass for not only cheating on his gurl but cheating on his gurl at your mom house while you in the next room or wherever you were. Drag him to hell and back. If you need support you have another brother to help you drag his ass. If you can't talk to your brother about stuff like that you guys aren't close as you say you are.
it's risky to involve another person into this since he may not be able to shut his trap. if he goes out telling people and says he heard it from you, your reputation is at risk. they will accuse you of trying to destroy their marriage or worse, they feeling betrayed coz you never spoke of it despite knowing the impact of the secret
Tell her , but anonymously. You'll be in contact with your brother for the rest of your life so you dont need him redirecting his anger out on you. You did not ruin the relationship, he did. Imagine if you were the one being cheated on, what would you want to have happened?
If your mom is trustworthy enough to now expose you to him tell her. She has authority over him so he can't lash out on her.
She works with him? Do you think this has been going on for a while like have you seen them together? cause if he has feelings for her it's a whole different ball game and he needs to tell his wife
Yeah the girl he cheated with works with him and it was the first time I saw her so I don't if it was a first time thing or not. This is getting worse.