She said they (dad and her) didn't have a clue, but if I were them I would've had suspicions

Ugh she can be such a pain in the ass sometimes

Do you feel better now they know though? Do they know about the guy you're dating?

I remember I told my ma cause I had her drop me off at my bf house and she said he sounded feminine. So I ended up telling her that he was more than a friend and she cried for days. Then she would be cool. Then cry, then hate everything, then cry, and finally she jus accepted it. But she knows how I feel about it, and I would give anything to ditch being with boys. That's why I'm not talking to anyone now. Id rather be single and happy, than with a boy and unhappy because I would rather be with a female cause my biggest goal in life is to have a son.

Good luck with embracing who you really are, it's the key to happiness.

Hahahha

MusicProphet, I already could tell when you signed up the Big Brother game
and ur gifs...

fiercely funny

Haha! Yes, that's me. I had an old Coming Out Story video before that had quite a few views as well. It's nice to know my story is getting out there! Thanks for the hug btw! (^_^)

A support system comes in time! I don't really discuss my sexuality much with most of my family members, but they are very accepting of me and for that I am eternally grateful.

No I don't. I wanted to tell them when i graduated and was already working and living on my own. Now I have to deal with my mom being up my ass all the time. And she found out i was dating somebody, and they forced me to break up with him.

I'm sure they'll accept it in time, they're just in shock. She shouldn't have gone through your stuff though.

Well they went to some psychiatrist or something and he told them that at age 21 people would know for sure their sexual orientation, so they're hoping i magically "turn straight" in the course of 2 years

Everyone should just be themselves. It's hard in the begining, but the key to living happy life is being yourself.

I got really annoyed with my mum last year and I decided to just tell her to sort of hurt her. And she just started crying and telling me that I wasn't gay, I was just confused. If I decided to be gay I could never be her son ever again. I love my mum a LOT and I had no idea what to do, so I just told her that I was willing to change. She became so happy and I haven't had the guts to tell her that I still get ****ed by guys, I still watch gay ****, and I have a humongous crush on a classmate. She still asks me every week or so; "Ashu, are you normal?". Call her backwards, but she's my mum.

Soso how can you guys say someone is being themselves if they know deep down inside that being gay/bi isn't really them??

They have always known I was such a Princess growing up lmao

My folks and brothers and sisters are fine with it no big deal, We've traveled and lived many places and learn to except and respect other cultures and people, so glad that helped, However I dated a girl a few times last year, now my dad thinks I'm confused blah blah, But in america schools the students were mean to me for it, so glad thats over with haha

There is no entry point to the million ways of ****ed up that whole situation is. I hope you find yourself soon.

Your mom needs to get her **** together and realize that some people have real problems. Sounds like you will only be able to accept yourself if she accepts you. I understand that but if she never does, you're going to have to go against her.

Yeah that's really messed up too. I hope she comes around to it someday.

Mmm i'm in the closet, well, my friends know about my sexuality, but my parents don't, they think that i feel like i want to be single because most of the girls are not good enough for me

Haha the real me comes out on this website.

It has nothing to do with my ma. We don't have a strong relationship anyways. But my motivatiion is to really have kids of my own. If that's the only thing I accomplish in life then I'm fine with that.