You know, when your family wants you to marry and have children, but you don't want to because you aren't gay. I know that in a lot of western countries this still happens, maybe in the US or Europe people have different perspectives about it. But does your family really push you to marriage? Even though you are gay/lesbian?
No, I'm lucky because I told my parents the world is about to end and humanity will become extinct by the year 2150, so if you would like your grandchildren to live on a planet where the air is toxic poison, and the plants and vegetables are rotting, where water in the oceans will have the consistency of black tar, and there are more bones and skeletons lying around than people, then go ahead be selfish and have grandchildren.
I asked my parents not to mention/ask me about my personal relationship/marriage/wanting to have grandchildren (so early when I'm only 19, weird) unless I want to/feel comfortable to start the conversation. They're pretty understanding. Don't care about what other people say.
My mom has such high hopes for me getting married, I'm the eldest child, she's always asking me what kind of girl I would want, what kind of wedding I'll have, she's so excited to have grandkids, little does she know...
I get sad thinking about how the day will come when I'll have to crush her dreams and tell here there is NO wedding happening, not with a girl at least.
But at least she has two other kids to expect it from, but there is that extra pressure on me bc I'm the eldest
lol no, my parents wouldn't be here for iT. My mom is too critical and would hate whoever I marry for stupid reasons, and my dad has always told me that marriage is unnecessary even though he's been married for my mom for nearly 25 years now lol
