Speaking of gay cops, there's this one gay cop that used to come into my past job and he KEEPS HARASSING me on Grindr. He is apparently married to his partner (he's in his 40's) and wants to meet up with other guys for more fun.
I don't know what I should do about this. How do you go to the cops for help, when they are the ones who are doing the harm?
Speaking of this cop being married, I've seen over 20 married/exclusive/relationship couples on Grindr looking for more fun.

That's not a relationship. That's a friend who you spend a lot of time with trying to find orgies with other guys.
I really want to tell this cop to leave me the **** alone, but I'm scared because of his cop status, like would be arrest me?

Clearly he's not happy enough with his partner that he needs to try to get into my pants...

What would you do in this situation?