Updated with some info:
Idk it's just that we both seemed excited while texting, we went out two dates and he kissed me, all good. Then suddenly the past two days it became one sided to the point that i was coming off desperate.
I did distant my self yesterday evening and he was the one that initiated the conversation this morning.
I am just wondering, is it worth it? i have a lot of **** going on with me at the moment (doing masters and work and trying to keep with my social life) but i actually kinda like that guy.
But i also know that guys are like that so i am not sure on what am i going to do.
And yes my ego is a major reason on why i am so frustrated. :[
Do you guys have any tips?
how to act while texting etc, it's frustrating ��
don't put out first date, don't reply to texts immediately, don't agree on everything right away, don't be too available and last thing get him tested before you go without protection that's all
If he takes one hour to reply (with no legitimate excuse), take two.
If he replies with a 'Looool' or a 'OK' or an emoji, don't reply. Don't try and continue the conversation. That's a signal it's over
Don't be the one who start the conversation all the time. Don't reply the text right away, but also try not to leave the "seen" mark, it's irritating (but if you get that from him then he deserves it).
Netflix and Chill without the Chill.
Explain your expectations from texting, and teach him how to live up to them or at least compromise. That way, you'll both be satisfied to a certain extent and know the limits as to how much you or him are available/willing to devote to texting.
