This thread is inspired by this video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CCQqJgPBCCE

Like what if he cheated on you and had gotten HIV months ago..while yall still had (raw)sex////
What would you do?

I would be pissed AF. Cheating is one of my pet peeves but if he cheated, got HIV AND had unprotected sex with me and put me at risk, I would end him.

dump him. I'm not sorry about it either. People should disclose their status before having sex if they are positive.

The minute I find out he cheated on me, he's out of my life but if he ends up getting a disease and never told me about it then I will hunt him down forever.

If I caught it, sue ha

Relationship's over. A person that respects you on even the most basic level wouldn't jeopardize your health like that.

Edit: My brain hurts after watching that video

this

I would honestly date a HIV+ person if I was on prep and everything was good

but if he cheated on me and got it, and put me at risk

I would murder him

relationship! cancelled!
Getting cheated on is one of my biggest fears, so if that happens plus testing positive? hell no.

Apologize

This.

This

And this!

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But isn't it illegal in some place to not disclose if they have HIV to the person they are having sex with?

If he had it beforehand and didn't tell me because he was ashamed or whatever I'd be pissed of course but I'd show some compassion.
If he cheated on me and then got it and didn't tell me I'd probably kill him, yeah.

If he revealed his status within the first couple of dates, and before having sex, I'd be fine with it. He takes his medication, I take prep, we use protection and it's smooth sailing.

If he did cheated on me, contracted HIV AND had unprotected sex with me, I might kill him. And then I'd sue ha!