This is really my only breakup experience but it was still awful lol. So I was dating this guy for almost 2 months. It was weird because we acted like boyfriend and boyfriend BUT he never official claimed me as his boyfriend. Like we would spend a lot of time together, go on dates, hold hands and talk about life, we even discussed if we become boy friends if we would be out to everybody or not, saying he really likes me etc etc.

Back than it really didn't bother me because i thought we were taking it slow and tbh he was the top and I always thought the top toke the lead but now i side eye it thinking about it now. Anyways, last Halloween he invited me to spend the night with him and watch a movie ( ) and one thing led to another and we had sex. At first i was resisting it because i told him I didn't want sex, i wanted a relationship. But he told me he loved me and i gave in. After we were done having sex we were cuddling and he just starts saying ******** Like " I don't know if we're each other types, I'm more into blonde hair white guys. " " i don't think were compatible for a relationship" blah blah blah. my inner self was like

But i was really tired because it was 5 am and i just ignored him and went to sleep. Next day i woke up and went to my dorm and I thought about what happened last night and i was pisssssssssssssssssssssssssssed. I confronted him about what he said. Long story short, he said he didn't mean it when he said he loved me, he just said that because he wanted to get in my pants. He said he's also unsure if he had any feelings for me at all

I was livid. I never been that angry in my life. I scalped him so hard till the point i was pulling at skull. he dumped me and I wanted to ****ing fight him. I went to his dorm, with my sneakers and Vaseline on my ****ing face waiting at the door for this negro. But as i'm waiting i'm like. " You know is it really worth it? 1) bitch you can't even ****ing fight so you might get your ass whooped. 2) you could get kicked out of college over a **** boy.) So i just let it go. Sorry for the long story but i would love to here your guys experiences

Thanks for letting me know how not to do that

when I stopped talking to him for 3 weeks and he still thought we were together

The reason i posted this story is because I was talking to him on grindr. . I didn't realize it was him till he sent a face pic and i immediately blocked him it just killed my vibe.

Got dumped at my friend's birthday party over the phone while drunk. Not to mention he completely ignored me for 3 days prior and I was worried. My friend's party got overshadowed with me crying in the toilet and my ex begging for me back. It was such a ****ing mess honestly

I dated a man considerably older than me and he got cancer and passed away. for me, it was worse than a breakup.

And currently now, my boyfriend I guess has fallen out of love after 4 years. Saying I'm too negative. I guess among other reasons. Still haven't worked out all the details

do you feel like i was wrong? sometimes i feel like i acted too rash. oh and when I confronted him about it he acted like he didn't know what i was talking about, like he never said it

I'm sorry sis that sounds awful. Do you think it's because you guys have been together for so long? When you been together with somebody for so long you have to find ways to spice the relationship up so it doesn't get boring.

Broke up with my ex because we both were moving to different towns and later countries and there was no way for us to be together.

Still pains me. There's all this love and we can't live it.

Mess at the OP. That's ****ing horrible. It sounded so perfect. Ugh, I swear to God I'm so ****ing mad at this boy & I don't even know him or the OP. He didn't deserve you

Yes.. a combination of being together and we were both unemployed over the summer. Spending 24/7 together was not good... we haven't really been doing much together.

one of my previous relationships lasted 4 years.. this one almost 4.5 years.

as time goes on, it's harder to keep it spiced up

well there was your first problem...

also my worst one was actually really sad and that's no fun, so here's my 2nd worst: i was in a really terrible relationship that i was too scared/guilty to leave because i was 16 and stupid...until he threw a huge fit and tried to make me feel guilty for spending time with my friends on my birthday, and i told him i wanted to break up with him, so he threatened to send texts i sent him to my family. i kicked his ass to the curb so hard and he never actually did that

I never had a bad breakup experience, it always went peacefully for me. BUT it didn't go as peacefully for my friend Riccardo. He found out that his ugly, ogre-looking boyfriend of 3 1/2 years had been doing drugs and cheating on him because of a weird fetish he had

aww thanks sis. I just chop it up as a life lesson. besides he was 17 at the time and i was 19 so clearly there was a maturity difference.

actually, all three of my breakups were really bad and messy. maybe it's a problem with me. who knows ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

nnnnnnnnnnnnnn sis don't judge me but i always thought the top was the dominant one in the relationship. Like the guy who opens the door and buys you **** and takes the lead while the bottom is the submissive


OT: glad you got out of that relationship sounds abusive

was long distance not a option?

I can feel you! When I was 16 I met this guy from New York (also 16) and I went there over the summer and it was incredibly great! Sadly we couldn't stay together because he didn't have the money to come to Italy and I didn't have the time to go to America due to Italy's scarce school breaks.

My mate that i was staying with at the time booked a weekend at a theme park 3 months before the date. Asked my ex (together about 4 months at that time) if he wanted to come but he wasn't up for it. He asked me to move in with him about a month before the date of my weekend away which i reluctantly agreed to. Long story short, he MOVED while i was away and had it planned from the moment i told him I'd be away that weekend!! Luckily i didn't have much stuff there. Tried phoning/texting, asking his friends and family if he knew where he was but they didn't know anything, so they said. I've been told he's a major junkie and has some kind of disability now

He gave me Chlamydia and ghosted me when I tried to confront him: blocked my calls, didn't answer his door when I knocked.

Scarred me tbh