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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
If you're attracted to "masc gays" you are probably homophobic and sexist (and probably bigoted in general), so it's a good trait.
Masc gays try to hard to be something they're not.
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Not true? I'm usually more attracted to masc guys, not because I'm ashamed of my sexuality at all, but because I feel like our personalities balance each other out better a majority of the time (PS I'm not masculine whatsoever). It's not that I haven't liked some more feminine men too, or avoid having interest in them at all, it's just I generally am more attracted to what you would consider "masc."
It's when people prefer "masc guys" over "fem" because they prefer non-gay behavior that it's homophobic and sexist. Finding a personality trait more attractive isn't sexist, it's when you discriminate based on your preference, and pretend as if the personality trait you're attracted to is better than others.
But know this, when I am interested in guys I could care less about masc/fem. That's not even on my radar when I'm meeting/talking to guys. What attracts me the most about men is how they interact with other people. Stuff like masc/fem and skin color is ridiculously dumb, and it's a big turn off when that's even a thing
Yes.
