Mess.

Yeah. The worst one was not exactly the date but a booty call. The guy used fake picture on grindr Turns out the picture was taken 5 years ago.

Omg one time I agreed to go out with this guy when I barely knew what he looked like he always covered like half of his face in his photos cuz he was self conscious so when I was waiting for him at the train station he liteally stood next to me for a good 5 minutes before I was like "ok....I think this is him I'll just try and see" and it was him he deadass awkwardly stood by me for 5 minutes and he knew 100% what I looked like This was after he was an hour late and he was so awkward he was on his phone for most of the date as I scrambled to make small talk lol

Luckily I haven't been on any really bad ones yet. The worst was just trying to deal with a rude guy who kept looking over my shoulder as I was talking to him and took no interest in me. It was like an hour and a half of him only speaking about himself and never asking me anything.

I would die. Not you two standing next to each other for 5 minutes.
I hate people like that. I had a friend who would only talk about herself.