First of all PLAN what you will be doing. Don't just improvise, cos nothing is worse than just walking aimlessly
- Don't choose too silent/awkward place
- Have eye contact, even if you're blushing & try to act confident (not overly tho) - boys LOVE confident boys
- If u like him and feel like it is going well, show it to him by planning the next date/what will you do/where will you go... right on the first one (cos when the 1st one ends, you probably won't be too sure if he liked you or not & the same on his side & then the 2nd one never comes)
- Don't ask him anything about his clothes (even if u don't like them) and don't negatively comment his appearance...People are really anxious and he will just hate u if u make fun of his nose or something
- Don't try too hard to be funny cos u may come off as embarrassing or even freaky (especially if the boy is more conservative than you), try to find out what makes him laugh. Joking around is REALLY important.
- Don't let the convo die, cos the silence is really awkward and is a killer of dates. I mean if u 2 don't have anything to say on the 1st date then there is not a big chance u'd do well in a relationship
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Don't ask any questions. It makes you seem like an interviewer/interrogator. If you want to know something then subtly steer the conversation towards the topic  |
Disagreed, actually I would suggest asking a lot, so he sees you're interested in his life and you will also get to know him better and avoid awkward silence. Don't be too nosy though and don't change topics too often. When he says something, ask something related and let the convo flow.
Ice breaker would be: straight up telling him that you don't date a lot and that you're nervous. If he is worthy, then he will understand and make things easier for u
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