What advice would you give someone who hasn\t been going out much, is awkward and terrible at getting the conversation to flow? (icebreakers, subjects eg.)
Dont:
- be really negative
- avoid eye contact
- talk about exes
- look at your phone , makes them think your disinterested and is horribly anti social
- talk about yourself, unless they specifically ask you questions about your life. Try and ask them questions, they dont want to here you ramble about your job for 20 minutes
- DO NOT add them on FB, twitter or instagram after the first date! huge no!
also, i suggest not having sex after the first date, even if it goes well. I just find it makes things kind of fizzle out sometimes... idk
Ask him about what he does/studies, what he likes, if he plays any sports/videogames?
Just relax and have a great time.
Avoid controversial topics tho.
Don't ask any questions. It makes you seem like an interviewer/interrogator. If you want to know something then subtly steer the conversation towards the topic
Don't ask any questions. It makes you seem like an interviewer/interrogator. If you want to know something then subtly steer the conversation towards the topic
Been there, done that! This guy last year. He wasn't helpful at making talk so like, I had to forcefully get the conversation to flow which was just....
He wasn't helpful at making talk so like, I had to forcefully get the conversation to flow which was just....