i just hung up the phone with my now exboyfriend, and he just broke up with me.
i'm very heartbroken and i feel like **** 'cause i know for the most part it was my fault. i always started fights when there was no need to, i was too insecure which led me to overthink everything and made me not trust him enough = start another unnecessary fight. he's exhausted and can't take it anymore, and it's very understandable.
it kills me to think i could've avoided all of this if i thought things twice and thorough before saying anything, but now there's nothing else to do.
how do i cope? i have to see him/bump into him every single day since he's a teacher at my dance studio and i have to pretend everything's alright. worst part is, i love him so much and i know he loves me too, we just can't keep on fighting like this over irrelevant ****.
1. Get yourself busy
2. Surround yourself with good people i.e., Friends or family members
3. Hook up with other guys but you dont have to force yourself if you are not ready
4. Get into dating pool as soon as possible. It's ok if you dont want to date anyone for now, but just meet new people can boost your self-esteem.
5. Don't go to his social media account or just take a break from fb, twitter, ig etc
6. Get closure. It will take time but believe me being single is better than being with a jerk
Oh, I forgot that you need to take a vacation somewhere
And don't contact him anymore. You guys need space or don't intentionally go to the place he likes to hangout just for a chance to bump into him
1. Seek self-improvement (sounds like you're halfway there)
2. Talk to him. I never understand why people always end relationships with like one conversation and that's that. You need to tell him what you just told us and ask him for forgiveness. Tell him you realize the error of your ways and that you want to change because you recognize you're not being fair to him. Did you ever tell him you love him? Did he ever tell you? While it might not be a good idea throw that in his face to try to get back together, if you do, you need to tell him at some point.
Literally just tell him how you feel. Tell him you struggle with insecurity and trust issues. Just let it all out.
I'm sorry to hear this man Breakups are actually like the worst thing that can happen to someone and you just gotta keep yourself busy for a while. Pick up new hobbies, better yourself, and basically the goal is to make yourself a better person from the breakup so that you can find a new love (in the distant future) and not make the same mistakes every again.
I know I've learned from every breakup I've had and now I'm in a two-year long relationship. I've never dumped someone - always been dumped. It's the absolute worst.
If it's harmless, confront it.
If you had a bad experience with someone like you almost died or something like that then might as well forget ha and move on with your life.
I'm sorry to hear this man Breakups are actually like the worst thing that can happen to someone and you just gotta keep yourself busy for a while. Pick up new hobbies, better yourself, and basically the goal is to make yourself a better person from the breakup so that you can find a new love (in the distant future) and not make the same mistakes every again.
I know I've learned from every breakup I've had and now I'm in a two-year long relationship. I've never dumped someone - always been dumped. It's the absolute worst.
It will take a while probably For the first few months just concentrate on something else, like nurture your friends and family relationships cause you'll probably feel quite lonely anyway!
And do lots of exercise! That always helps, it chemically makes you feel better and use the breakup as motivation.
Then when the worst over, analyse where you went wrong and try to improve yourself. Everything's a learning curve.
omg sis I just posted one of these earlier mine was basically two months ago we never fought at all everything was cool until he went out of town two months ago for a whole month to his hometown. I was always the one breaking up with people so never really had to go thru all the emotions I'm going thru right now.
I cried a lot yesterday and rediscovered this song today listen to it its making me feel better somehow...its all I've been listening to all day.
Breakups are actually like the worst thing that can happen to someone and you just gotta keep yourself busy for a while. Pick up new hobbies, better yourself, and basically the goal is to make yourself a better person from the breakup so that you can find a new love (in the distant future) and not make the same mistakes every again.
For the first few months just concentrate on something else, like nurture your friends and family relationships cause you'll probably feel quite lonely anyway! 
Ain't it supposed to be cuffin season