Will you change your surname to theirs? Will they change it to yours? Or will you hyphenate?

We will both change it to Carey

My surname literally translates to 'friend of Islam' so... Yeah, def not keeping that!

I'm a female so I'll change it, I know you can refuse but I like the idea of it.

I'll probably change it cause I don't like mine, unless his is even worse. I want to have the same last name and hyphens are cringey

If they have a good enough last name id change it, dont like my last name

Yes, Justin Spears sounds nice.

My boyfriend and I are getting married next year, and have decided to keep our last names. The idea of adopting the other's last name is cute, but it's messy when you factor in all of the paperwork required to change your name on everything. Plus, in a way, it's like ownership, imo.

I'm keeping my name, but he'll be welcome to take it if he wants to.

The real question is what to do with the kid(s).

If there's is better than mine, My last name is cute... but not that cute.

I am keeping my name lol

However I wonder if I have children which last name should they take cause my name is already hyphenated (sort of) so hyphenating isn't an option, it'd be too much

i'd change it if it's better or if they desperately wanted me to

I think I'll add "Styles" to my last name

Congrats!

Double barrelled surname

Lord I'd love to be a Mendes

Congratulations!

i won't get married

My bf's first and surname are Arabic, while mine are Swedish. I just really like that they fit with each other, so I hope we can just keep our own surnames. He really wants me to take his tho.