Trade
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A man who messes around with other men, but no one would ever know by looking or talking to him. Used by gay black men to identify masculine gay men or DL Brothas.
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Based off of this thread:
http://atrl.net/forums/showthread.php?t=1055502
In that thread, you would see members express disappointment at men who declare their preference for those who fall into the hetero-normative "masc" category. Understandably so.
It is however interesting that the word "Trade" is thrown around very often in the African American gay community, often placed on a pedestal. You would overhear one guy tell his friend "OMG OMG this trade was staring at me", "I hope I get a hot trade tonight". I even saw a tweet where this guy talked about hooking up with someone and thought he had finally gotten a hot trade only to overhear him singing along to Mariah in the shower. The replies were people laughing along with him or sharing in his disappointment. Most of the times, these are feminine gay men placing "trades" on a pedestal.
This begs the question, isn't this hypocritical?