Originally posted by DevonDreams

I don't have a problem with that. I'm just pointing out whats wrong with it. You don't have to pretend to like something, but like saying no blacks it makes you look really stupid. I'm considered "masc" in the gay community so personally I'd be turned off by taglines like "masc4masc" unless their used ironically.

Originally posted by Beautiful Liar

No his persona was very feminine which I didn't know when chatting, I would even dare say he was border line of being the crossing dressing type of gay. The clothing, the make up, the vouging, to much for me! Even as a friend it's too over the top

Originally posted by Communion

Right???

People can have their preferences, but people are also allowed to point out that someone's preferences are racist or femmephobic or gross or just kind of make them an asshole.

A "I have freedom of speech but you're not allowed use your freedom of speech to call me a bigot!!!!!11111" tea from people getting heated over their "preferences" being looked down at.



...you wouldn't be friends with a guy cause he wears make-up or what he wears?

See, this is why the Masc Only crowd looks gross.

Your attitudes aren't about just what gets you turned on. You obviously have severe internal issues with femininity and femmephobia if you're using it as a parameter to who you can be friends with. If you think someone being themselves and being confident is being too over the top, you sound absolutely dreadful.

Originally posted by Communion

It's just.... stupid, cause how the hell do you even define and quantify masculine?

Do you mean physically? Do you mean as a personality? A combination of both?

Would you want to hook up with a guy with a super muscular physique but then hate him and deem him feminine if his voice was too high or mannerisms flamboyant? Would you prefer a very thin and scrawny guy or a maybe heavier-set guy if they were performing masculinity more to your liking?

The idea that men are inherently masculine, as some have said in here, is so...

Originally posted by Bangerzzz

You are so annoying No one is going to explain what they mean by a masculine man to you, it's not "stupid" to have such a preference just because you can't understand what they mean by masculine.

Originally posted by Beautiful Liar

So what happens if your "fem" and I'm not into that trait and you like me? Would I be wrong for telling you I'm not interested?

Originally posted by Beautiful Liar

So what happens when a black person writes you? You don't respond? That's no different than putting "no blacks" because the outcome is the same

Originally posted by M André

It is offensive when some guys prefer femenine guys only? No soo

Originally posted by swissman

Why do you need to give a reason for not being interested? It's an unwanted appraisal of who you are as a person.



The outcome is not the same because in one situation you literally told a black person that the colour of their skin is the reason you don't like them and the other is keeping your racism to yourself and not letting it affect anyone else.

It's still problematic to feel it but not say it, but making someone feel inferior because of skin colour in the process is moreso.

Originally posted by Beautiful Liar

This is a bit of reach I think? Having a Latino preference over black (for example) doesn't make you racist towards black?

Originally posted by Communion

Right???

People can have their preferences, but people are also allowed to point out that someone's preferences are racist or femmephobic or gross or just kind of make them an asshole.

A "I have freedom of speech but you're not allowed use your freedom of speech to call me a bigot!!!!!11111" tea from people getting heated over their "preferences" being looked down at.



...you wouldn't be friends with a guy cause he wears make-up or what he wears?

See, this is why the Masc Only crowd looks gross.

Your attitudes aren't about just what gets you turned on. You obviously have severe internal issues with femininity and femmephobia if you're using it as a parameter to who you can be friends with. If you think someone being themselves and being confident is being too over the top, you sound absolutely dreadful.

Originally posted by Communion

So you don't want to articulate what you define as masculine? Because you can't?

It's probably much like what someone else said - people want someone to top them, but being seen as wanting to be topped is seen as feminine and considered unmanly, so they do it under the guise of masc4masc. Which already exposes the internalized hatred if people are assuming and thinking the sex position one prefers correlates to their relationships with masculinity & femininity.

And then you're gonna use some parameter and scale "fem to masc" to determine not only who you have sex with and date, but who you're friends with?

A "I can't wear pink or order fruity drinks or people will know I'm gay and my self-hatred makes the idea of being obviously gay sickening to me" tea. What a sad life masc4mascs live.

Originally posted by Communion

Having racial preferences, especially ones that are fetishizing are literally 100% racist.... How the **** do you reject an entire race or not find them attractive?

Latino is also not a race. There's black Latinos ??

Originally posted by DevonDreams

I don't have a problem with that. I'm just pointing out whats wrong with it. You don't have to pretend to like something, but like saying no blacks it makes you look really stupid. I'm considered "masc" in the gay community so personally I'd be turned off by taglines like "masc4masc" unless their used ironically.

Originally posted by DevonDreams

Having that mindset is really stupid and it's the reason why the LGBT+ is full of lonely *****s that complain about not finding a man. We're ****ing shallow and our attraction to things is based of what society says is attractive. We focus too much on looks and wanting to get ****ed. It's the sad reality.

Someone compared it to like straight men who don't want fat women.. Thing is they're not a minority so it's not a highlighted problem like it is in the LGBT+ community so stop comparing.

So to answer your question.. Is it offensive? Yes.. It is because most of the time people can't choose the amount of testosterone they receive.

It can be a preference and still be offensive to others.