I have many gay friends and a lot of them are SUPER creepy when it comes to hitting on straight men.

Toxic masculinity is a hell of a drug, and straight privilege.

This is.....

Let's not call gay men creepy (or imply they're predatory), especially if you're not one.

who cares about what they think/do ?

yall need to stop obsessing over straight men. They don't care about you in that way.

I'm not saying I haven't been attracted to straight guys (I mean, they're still guys so?), but I literally never initiate anything, especially since I'm in the closet. I've still had my straight friends grope me, slap my butt, etc. though, but I guess that's okay because we gays should be thankful for any attention we get from straight guys, right?

This!

There are few gays who don't know or just don't respect personal boundaries as it pertains to straight men, and it's a bit disgusting. So I can understand the concern.

There have also been thousands and thousands of cases of (conventionally unattractive) men posing as attractive men to get nude pictures from women (usually hot women). Predatory behavior is found is pretty much every human in some form.

I know ATRL as a whole seems like it thirsts for straight guys exclusively but I'm sure most of the posts are in jest. Meme theory if you will. A lot of topics have a usual pattern to the responses they get. I've seen threads about gays where every post was crude. Black men as well even though people like to call ATRL racist and uninterested in black guys.

The fact is that people often do things that aren't cool

It comes from human nature of men.

The reason why dads are protective of the daughters, is that he chased the girls too and knows how the boys chase down the girls. The boys don't need much care, they will go hunting automatically.

Men jokily say "Bag over the head and **** [her] for the fatherland." or "Cover with the flag and **** for the fatherland.". The country always needs new kids, not just to populate the armies, also to keep the welfare system running. It doesn't matter how ugly, especially when alcohol is lowering the limits and standards. The mythical sheep ****ing.

When straight guys are faced with gay guys wanting to bang someone from behind. It's natural to expect that they are hunted like all the girls and the sheep.

I don't see the problem with hitting on someone. All you gotta say is "I don't swing your way." I know a few girls who used to hella crush on me and call me fine all the time, it's not a big deal.

All straight men either ugly or cute will think that all gay men want to **** with them... like

It is also true that some gay men would sleep with literally any man. Like we say here: le tira a lo que sea

All the straights I know are way more touchy-feely than the gays.

Straight men are not the only delusional ones, gays are too, I mean you all are finding excuses or signals to know if some straight guy is gay and dont lie you all know that is true.

What a stupid thread.

it goes both ways.

this

No, I would either hit on them back (doesn't mean I'll do anything with them) or make it clear, politely, that I'm not interested. Flirting isn't sexual assault unless body language is threatening, getting violent because a gay flirted with you is homophobic.

I think they say it in public to show they aren't gay.

So if they are close to a gay guy, they'll hit that "He's cool. Not one of those other types." It's to save face since they wouldn't even be close to a guy they thought was into them in the first place.