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Originally posted by CakeLike
Might have something to do with the fact that there are tonnes more str8 men then gay men

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Well yeah, obviously. But I also believe gay men in general are more feminine leaning that straight men generally are. Not a bad thing, but it puts us in an interesting predicament.
I don't really think it's fair to shame gays for being so fixated on masculinity. Biologically, we're functioned to be sexually aroused by the primitive characteristics of man being the "providers" and strength in the same way that women are. Women aren't shamed for waning to date real masc dudes.
But being that our pool of mates is so much smaller, we can only be so picky.