I've hooked up with guys who had boyfriends, girlfriends, wives, kids...and I don't see any problem? I'm not the one in the relationship so why should I care if it falls apart? If anything, I should be thanked because I proved your man wasn't loyal. Whenever I tell my friends about my hookups that involved someone in a relationship, they look down on me.

You tell me

I don't know, you could still choose to not be part of the situation... But the term homewrecker is nonsensical, if you're in a relationship (not an open one) and still mess around with other people, the whole thing is already wrecked by your own doing, not your mistress/lover.

This is an extremely selfish way to look at it

People look down on you because you're actively contributing to the infidelity of a relationship. If you can't see why this is a problem -- or what appears to be your case of understanding this but not caring -- there's really nothing left to say

Have you ever been cheated on? Perhaps one day it'll happen to you and you'll have a little more sympathy next time a married man hits you up

U a hoe, mister!

It's just kind of a self drag really, your sleeping with someone who likes you enough to sleep with you but not enough to end their relationship with someone else

It is also super tragic that this seems to be a pattern for you. Btw you are NOT helping the other person by "proving" anything, if that was your goal you would just show him/her your texts and possibly a recorded conversation, instead you word it differently so you don't actually mention it to the other person but have another reason to justify it.

If that is what you like to do cool, don't try and justify it and don't treat it as a bragging right all of that just screams "i feel guilty" tbh

Those homewreckers still haven't stumbled on someone who would whoop their ass yet. I'll show you how they would homewreck after. I'd ****ing beat the **** out of my boyfriend and the one he was cheating on me with. IDGAF.

seek a counsellor.

Yikes