We need to get busy keeping trumps ass out of office first. We don't want to create a Gay Hispanic flag just to nail it to the wall built up on the border.
But take my advice, and just give up the fight. People here do NOT speak from experience when it comes to making these claims. They just repeat what they've been told is happening. If you ask them explicitly where in the US these claims are popular, not a single user will answer you.
I too live in the real world and have used Grindr in all the big US cities (& abroad) and have literally only seen "no blacks" once. ONCE since 2010. Not only that, they'll also tell you that races don't intermingle in the gay scene and that interracial dating doesn't exist. And again, anyone whose experienced the gay nightlife firsthand knows this isn't true, not by a long shot.
The point I'm making? Don't give much attention to people spewing negativity and dark visions of reality that they have no firsthand experience of. It's a wate of energy.
I've seen No Blacks/Asians on both Adam4Adam and Jack'd, especially when I was in Miami a few months ago. I actually don't find that bothersome. People are entitled to have their preferences, even tho I feel like it's indeed lowkey weird. Even when Black guys put "no white guys," I always just say it's in essence of saying all white/blacks/whatever are the same in looks and quality.
But take my advice, and just give up the fight. People here do NOT speak from experience when it comes to making these claims. They just repeat what they've been told is happening. If you ask them explicitly where in the US these claims are popular, not a single user will answer you.
I too live in the real world and have used Grindr in all the big US cities (& abroad) and have literally only seen "no blacks" once. ONCE since 2010. Not only that, they'll also tell you that races don't intermingle in the gay scene and that interracial dating doesn't exist. And again, anyone whose experienced the gay nightlife firsthand knows this isn't true, not by a long shot.
The point I'm making? Don't give much attention to people spewing negativity and dark visions of reality that they have no firsthand experience of. It's a wate of energy.
Tldr because I don't personally see it a lot it doesn't exist. Get out of your bubble, it's rampant and all gays will tell you whites included.
Good tbh I think all black communities should work on uplifting themselves and having money flow through the communities instead of trying so hard to be inclusive and crying mainstream media doesn't care about us. We need to build our own instead of giving all the money away. The fact that we can be the top consumers in some of these areas and still get ignored should be a wake up call.
I thought it was for Indian people too but I guess that would come under 'no rice'. IDK even know at this point.
I guess it makes sense like "no rice" (Asians), "no spice" (Hispanics), and "no chocolate" (Blacks)
I think it depends on the demographics of the place. In the US the "brown" people are usually Hispanics while in the UK & Australia it's Indians & Middle Eastern
I mean, there are already flags for the different orientations and even for the different "types" of gays (i.e. bears), so I don't see why y'all are feeling a certain type of way about this.
Can't wait for the Albino flag, queens coming to slay all of y'all
Tbh. Queue: 'white gays don't need a white flag, they don't deserve one. We deserve one more than they do, people hate us more! That's segregation and racism' etc.
Just as everyone else is doing for the black flag
I live in West Hollywood and it's SO racist here. Like shockingly bad. I've seen white gays literally scoff in disgust when a black person person tries to strike up convo at a gay club.
As a white gay person who has a tremendous amount of love and respect for black gay/trans people and someone who admires your strength even with all the challenges you face, I'm a little sad