No, it really isn't. Men wanna appear more masculine so they workout a lot, which is great just like women appearing attractive in their own right.

What isn't okay is for some of them to feel like that's the ideal look. That's why some men use stereoids and women use plastic surgery which both is very harmful and can lead to bad health issues.

both are bad as they influence stereotypes

I don't think any person should be objectified. No matter how they look or what they're wearing, they're still a person and should be treated as such. You can compliment and admire what you see but that doesn't mean you have to do so in a disrespectful manner.

The notion that men don't mind is faulty. I've known a couple men who have noticeable penis ****** that they're self conscious about. Yeah, maybe a lot of guys with big ones are happy to show off but that doesn't mean all are okay with it being pointed out. Same with women, big breasts aren't easy to hide and not all want to be gawked at.