Let me tell you a little story. My grandpa was a big man. Muscular & tall. He developed Parkinson's disease, until his mobility came to a stop, he turned into a vegetable. My Nan, who is exetremely tiny and has always been a homebody who was 80 years old at the time, did EVERYtHING for him while maintaining a home. He since died, and my nan is now 98 years old and still gets on top of counter tops on her own free will to clean the glass plates that sit on top of the cup boards. She still vacuums, rakes the leaves, shovel the snow, garden at 98. So your little bitch ass can leave all you want to if your partner developes a disability. I WILL judge you and disown you (if I knew you)
Yes but I can't promise I wont cheat, especially if the sex suffers.
Also I def won't be wiping anyone's ass, carers can do that. I would be mortified if it was the other way round and my partner was wiping my ass. Nope nope nope