Yes I can do them but don't expect to get any bareback cuz I know some of these hoze around town

Hate them, it's not for me.

I mean I don't agree with them, whatever makes them happy etc.

I know a couple that's been together seven years that have an open relationship and they're very happy. Inversely, I know a couple that's been together for a few years that have one and they are so miserable.

It depends on the dynamic of your relationship tbh and how closely you tie sex with love. I would be a tragic, paranoid mess in one.

not my thing.

I was in one once. It was kind of awesome, if I'm honest.

But it only works in some relationships. It won't work with every person you have.

So not for me.

That's so sad.

It is not my thing. I am far too jealous of a person for that to work for me. I also tend to get attached to one person and focus entirely on them.

However, if you are into the idea of an open relationship, be honest about it. The last guy I saw tried to say he would be monogamous for me and then I later found out (2.5 months after we broke up) that he was seeing other people the entire time and his other main side-trick also was convinced they were in an exclusive relationship. As long as you're not a piece of **** like my ex, go for it.

The concept of a 'open relationship' never made any sense to me.

So you want the benefits of being in a relationship, yet want to sleep with other people basically?

Honestly id rather have complete trust in my partner and not having to worry about protection / STIs opposed to having multiple sexual partners

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wooh...let me make myself unpopular here.

i've been in a relationship for 10.5 years now and it's open since about 6 years. so it's something that evolved over the years. the most important part is trust and honesty. we don't do anything behind each others back.

it's cute to think that you'll find the man that will fulfill you sexually for the next 50 years but for us it works out better if we can be open. the thing is that we do it very rarely, maybe twice a year or sth lol.

10 years ago i would have said noooooooo never too. every relationship is different and if both agree..

I don't think I can do it, but it's working for some couples, so why not ?

As long as the couple agreed from the begining, and if it's a mutual consensus, then okay.
But if the "open" status of the relationship imposed itself because one of them is a cheater and the other one simply don't want to lose him or her .... :

Not for me.

And if my partner brought it up to me, I would have no trust in them. Because if I said no, they are likely to cheat on me. So yeah, definitely against them in my own life. But do you.

If both people consent and are totally honest with one another, then it could work. But communication is key.

I think to each his/her own. You do you, boo.

It's definitely not for me but if it makes someone else happy then go for it.

Hey if your confidence and trust is that good then I applaud you

cause my insecure ass would die if my partner ever slept with someone else

not for me but each to their own

Came here to say this. It depends on the person you're with, and it can't work with everyone.