And us girls always say why are the hot ones always gay

There are a lot more straight guys in the world than there are gay guys, and there shouldn't be anything wrong with being attracted to them, but if you're ONLY attracted to straight guys because of the fact that they ARE straight, then yeah that's self hatred.

Basically. Gays are constantly putting themselves in competition with each other. It's not a competition.

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And when people attack fem gays here, their lingo and everything, people say it's self hate (and they are right tho) because y'all spend the day on a online forum praising or attacking pop girls that don't even know that we exist and using words like "yassss" "slayyyy" "queen", how masc.

No, it's just some feminine gays, drag queens, and trannys doing what they do best: being dramatic

No, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to a guy who happens to be straight. No, there's nothing wrong with preferring masculine guys. No, it's not self hate.

So all gays have to be wearing high heels, chewing a gum and walking and talking like girls not to be self hating?

Gay male = attracted to males. Where does it say anything about what they look like or how they act?

yeah i'm pretty sure that you misunderstood my comment and jumped to some messy ass conclusions so i'm gonna let you compose yourself and ask you to re-read it

Screaming at chewing gum being some gay stereotype now

Screaming at drama being some feminine gay/ drag queen exclusive phenomenon

But anyway, you literary just posted in another thread about how you'll "never come out the closet" cause it's "not people's business"? Are you really going to lecture us on what isn't selfhate?

i knew i was gay ever since the first time i tried a stick of that bubblegummy goodness

i put the fruit in juicyfruit gum

I don't see how that makes me "self hating"

I totally have beliefs that, in a part of the world like mine where people reek of stupidity, it's no one's business to know about something as personal as my sexual orientation, and certainly no one should get to think of me as inferior to them according to their stupid beliefs.

Plus, I'm not the kind to lie about my problems or sufferings, and it's not like "self hating" is something to make fun of anyway. If I were self hating, I wouldn't hide it on ATRL.

Sorry about my other post, that was a little bit too much lol.

love this post.

only the Frankie Grandes of the ATRL use the "self-hate" comments because no one uses their feminime acting

it's a turn off, and acting feminime isn't that much of a turn off as is their super extra shady whatever thing they are acting and dressing as. You henny, need to love yourself first.

The intense attraction and obsession towards straight guys is often because gay guys want to be them. It is unhealthy certainly.

It's not my fault straights are more masculine AKA more attractive to me