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Originally posted by willmcclure9
Twink = looks
Fem Queen = Attitude, personality etc
You can be a masc twink or a fem bear 
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Then what's a Daddy because it isn't just an older man. It's an older man interested in younger men, primarily to power over, treat (sometimes in form of money if he's a rentboy) and look after the younger gay. It's sexual dominance and control.
Bears can look like Daddies but they act much differently. They're often more cuddly, friendly and there's less dominance - sharing sexual desires and roles among other bears. Cubs are the young version obviously.
These tribes are used because we gays over many centuries have tried ever so hard to differentiate ourselves from straight people, identifying ourselves in mannerisms and sexual roles. We're much more complex.